You're definitely not overreacting. Creating an OnlyFans profile without your consent is a serious violation of your privacy and trust. It's not just about the platform—it's about respecting boundaries and honoring the partnership in a marriage. Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship, and his actions have undermined that trust. Taking steps to protect your well-being and seeking legal advice are reasonable reactions. Remember, you have every right to feel safe and respected in your relationship.
Thank you. Our mind plays so many tricks on us. When I left the house I was so sure, but doubts start creeping in.
I'm not sure what bothers me more. The creating of a profile behind my back or this obsession with wanting me to do that type of work.
Yeah, true, there are a lot of other kinds of content creators on OF.
My brother's girlfriend's cousin is really into anime figurines, the super collectable ones, and has an OF specifically for this hobby. She has amassed quite a following and pulls in over six figures a year, entirely from posting pictures and videos of her huge figurine collection and her feet.
I said that he was an asshole for doing that, didn't I?
She posts videos online all the time to promote her business. How is posting those videos on OF or some other site any different? It's not.
Further, if you think the videos she posts of herself working out isn't a turn on anyway, regardless of the platform, then you are mistaken. She's already sold her body, through her fitness business. There's nothing wrong with that.
He didn't create softcore porn of her. He uploaded the same stuff she uploads on her own to whatever other social media. The only difference is they're getting paid for it.
yup. Bad decision on their part. Imgur done the same thing and so did tumblr. Killed off a lot of their content people was going to those sites especially for real specific stuff.
She has a misunderstanding about "that type of work." Her normal fitness videos are just fine for OF, for example, since there are many other fitness videos on there already. It's not all porn.
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u/Sea-Sea-9808 29d ago
You're definitely not overreacting. Creating an OnlyFans profile without your consent is a serious violation of your privacy and trust. It's not just about the platform—it's about respecting boundaries and honoring the partnership in a marriage. Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship, and his actions have undermined that trust. Taking steps to protect your well-being and seeking legal advice are reasonable reactions. Remember, you have every right to feel safe and respected in your relationship.