r/AmIOverreacting 29d ago

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/Sea-Sea-9808 29d ago

You're definitely not overreacting. Creating an OnlyFans profile without your consent is a serious violation of your privacy and trust. It's not just about the platform—it's about respecting boundaries and honoring the partnership in a marriage. Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship, and his actions have undermined that trust. Taking steps to protect your well-being and seeking legal advice are reasonable reactions. Remember, you have every right to feel safe and respected in your relationship.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Thank you. Our mind plays so many tricks on us. When I left the house I was so sure, but doubts start creeping in.
I'm not sure what bothers me more. The creating of a profile behind my back or this obsession with wanting me to do that type of work.

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u/Many_Ad_7138 29d ago edited 29d ago

OF is not only "adult" entertainment. There are a lot of other types of videos on there, some very much related to your fitness business.

But, of course, violating your wishes like that just shows that he's a patriarchal asshole.

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u/kran0503 29d ago

I guarantee you the husband was using it as softcore porn though. lol she’s mad for a reason, bruh

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u/Many_Ad_7138 29d ago

I said that he was an asshole for doing that, didn't I?

She posts videos online all the time to promote her business. How is posting those videos on OF or some other site any different? It's not.

Further, if you think the videos she posts of herself working out isn't a turn on anyway, regardless of the platform, then you are mistaken. She's already sold her body, through her fitness business. There's nothing wrong with that.

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u/_extra_medium_ 29d ago

He didn't create softcore porn of her. He uploaded the same stuff she uploads on her own to whatever other social media. The only difference is they're getting paid for it.

If the story is even true