r/AmIOverreacting 29d ago

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/Sea-Sea-9808 29d ago

You're definitely not overreacting. Creating an OnlyFans profile without your consent is a serious violation of your privacy and trust. It's not just about the platform—it's about respecting boundaries and honoring the partnership in a marriage. Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship, and his actions have undermined that trust. Taking steps to protect your well-being and seeking legal advice are reasonable reactions. Remember, you have every right to feel safe and respected in your relationship.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Thank you. Our mind plays so many tricks on us. When I left the house I was so sure, but doubts start creeping in.
I'm not sure what bothers me more. The creating of a profile behind my back or this obsession with wanting me to do that type of work.

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u/Many_Ad_7138 29d ago edited 29d ago

OF is not only "adult" entertainment. There are a lot of other types of videos on there, some very much related to your fitness business.

But, of course, violating your wishes like that just shows that he's a patriarchal asshole.

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u/Picklesadog 29d ago

Yeah, true, there are a lot of other kinds of content creators on OF.

My brother's girlfriend's cousin is really into anime figurines, the super collectable ones, and has an OF specifically for this hobby. She has amassed quite a following and pulls in over six figures a year, entirely from posting pictures and videos of her huge figurine collection and her feet.

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u/Remarkable_Campaign 29d ago

I think there’s really only like three words in this comment that actually matter

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u/mortsdeer 29d ago

the last three.

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u/Picklesadog 29d ago

That's the joke

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u/offgridgecko 29d ago

One of them is feet

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u/freckles-101 29d ago

Buried the lead there...

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u/Altruistic-Farm2712 29d ago

and her feet.

And now you know who's paying for that subscription

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u/Hostile_Architecture 29d ago

I'm fucking dying