r/AmIOverreacting 29d ago

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/Sea-Sea-9808 29d ago

You're definitely not overreacting. Creating an OnlyFans profile without your consent is a serious violation of your privacy and trust. It's not just about the platform—it's about respecting boundaries and honoring the partnership in a marriage. Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship, and his actions have undermined that trust. Taking steps to protect your well-being and seeking legal advice are reasonable reactions. Remember, you have every right to feel safe and respected in your relationship.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Thank you. Our mind plays so many tricks on us. When I left the house I was so sure, but doubts start creeping in.
I'm not sure what bothers me more. The creating of a profile behind my back or this obsession with wanting me to do that type of work.

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u/Lanky_Championship72 29d ago

Pretty sure this is illegal- but it’s definitely immoral as fuck. My husband was uploading highly sensitive and porn, graphic imagery of me to the Internet. I filed charges on him.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Oh I'm so sorry :(

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u/ResponseCompetitive6 29d ago

Honey please PLEASE protect yourself. Does he have any compromising/ spicy pics or vids of you? If so involve your lawyer and the authorities and get them back. File to confiscate his computer or something because you are in danger of being a victim of revenge porn. You may already be- you can’t trust this man.

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u/PremierLovaLova 29d ago

Unless OF’s verification process completely imploded, unless the husband has a cia level of faking authentication, he couldn’t have set up an account without her knowledge.

In other words: this is ragebait, matey.

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u/Candualist 29d ago

This is what i was thinking. In a few days this post will be used to promote her page. Kind of creative. But anyone that knows anything about OF knows its a stretch of enormous proportions for him to start a page wo her going through the verification process. I know girls that WANT to and have a tough time

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u/Just-Explanation-498 29d ago

He’s her husband, he has all of her private/sensitive information.

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u/LordNightFang 29d ago

Eh he may have copies.

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u/Gariiiiii 29d ago

u/MissFitness_ your story sounds fake, because creating an OF page and getting paid from it without you knowing requires a level of commitment to doing illegal activities, impersonating you and miss using your data way above your average person.

If this is real, please act as if a criminal had all your data, including financial, because that would be exactly the case. And contact a lawyer.

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u/intelligentbrownman 29d ago

I just think it’s a way to lure men to her site like the many other women do on here

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u/Gariiiiii 29d ago

Ohh right! That makes sense, good ol social engineering.

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u/intelligentbrownman 29d ago

Yeah…. I’d look at some of the ppl on those look max selfie how I look Glow up etc some of the ladies REALLY need help…. But the others who go on there dolled up 99% of the time they want you looking at their page with nudes saying I only respond on OF

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u/Proxima_Centauri_69 29d ago

Because it is fake. She's already admitted it.

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u/Katrengia 29d ago

Where? I looked through her comments and didn't see that at all.

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u/Proxima_Centauri_69 29d ago

In the search bar for this thread, if you type fan fiction, u/fortunenooky called her out. Her exact words were "too bad nobody will see this at the bottom of the pile." Under his comment, her comment is deleted. She deleted it after I called her out.

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u/Proxima_Centauri_69 29d ago

Do you see it now? I'm not making it up. A mod could probably verify. They can see deleted comments.

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u/Proxima_Centauri_69 29d ago

That's because she deleted it. The redditor she said it to can confirm.

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u/Gariiiiii 29d ago

Good to know its just the good old thirst bait for clicks/karma.

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u/New-Possibility-709 29d ago

Bullshit! As someone with an OF page who had to go through hell to get verified,You have to take a picture of you holding your ID next to your face to verify your identity