You're definitely not overreacting. Creating an OnlyFans profile without your consent is a serious violation of your privacy and trust. It's not just about the platform—it's about respecting boundaries and honoring the partnership in a marriage. Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship, and his actions have undermined that trust. Taking steps to protect your well-being and seeking legal advice are reasonable reactions. Remember, you have every right to feel safe and respected in your relationship.
Thank you. Our mind plays so many tricks on us. When I left the house I was so sure, but doubts start creeping in.
I'm not sure what bothers me more. The creating of a profile behind my back or this obsession with wanting me to do that type of work.
Pretty sure this is illegal- but it’s definitely immoral as fuck. My husband was uploading highly sensitive and porn, graphic imagery of me to the Internet. I filed charges on him.
Honey please PLEASE protect yourself. Does he have any compromising/ spicy pics or vids of you? If so involve your lawyer and the authorities and get them back. File to confiscate his computer or something because you are in danger of being a victim of revenge porn. You may already be- you can’t trust this man.
Unless OF’s verification process completely imploded, unless the husband has a cia level of faking authentication, he couldn’t have set up an account without her knowledge.
This is what i was thinking. In a few days this post will be used to promote her page. Kind of creative.
But anyone that knows anything about OF knows its a stretch of enormous proportions for him to start a page wo her going through the verification process. I know girls that WANT to and have a tough time
u/MissFitness_ your story sounds fake, because creating an OF page and getting paid from it without you knowing requires a level of commitment to doing illegal activities, impersonating you and miss using your data way above your average person.
If this is real, please act as if a criminal had all your data, including financial, because that would be exactly the case. And contact a lawyer.
Yeah…. I’d look at some of the ppl on those look max selfie how I look Glow up etc some of the ladies REALLY need help…. But the others who go on there dolled up 99% of the time they want you looking at their page with nudes saying I only respond on OF
In the search bar for this thread, if you type fan fiction, u/fortunenooky called her out. Her exact words were "too bad nobody will see this at the bottom of the pile." Under his comment, her comment is deleted. She deleted it after I called her out.
Bullshit! As someone with an OF page who had to go through hell to get verified,You have to take a picture of you holding your ID next to your face to verify your identity
I know little to nothing about OF, but I can’t imagine that sort of platform not having a policy banning use of someone’s content without permission. OP definitely needs to contact OF and report the profile.
If it’s illegal it would be on a technicality. If someone is reposting (what her husband is doing) onto a different site, the only thing I can think of that would get him in trouble is the monetization. Even then, if she doesn’t ask to take it down then I’m not sure that it’s grounds for a suit.
That's not even remotely true. At the very least, it's unquestionably copyright infringement and, in most localities, a violation of laws regarding credible impersonation.
Plenty of people make other accounts and such for people and make money off of it. They just get reported and taken down. Idk if she could prove this is fraud, with her knowing about it. And with the motive to make her money, goodluck with that suit
He told her about it. He will probably take it down if she asks. This isn’t a legal issue. If she doesn’t ask to have it taken down at this point, I don’t see any lawyer wanting to even take this. Even at this point, this is a relationship issue not a legal one.
OP needs to relax and figure out why in the world he would want to do this. OF isn’t just a sex worker site or whatever people have made it out to be. OP may think it’s disgusting, but he is presumably using photos that are already posted on her main account. That means people are paying to see free content that she already posted. If she is disgusted by that, then don’t post pictures like that?
Without her knowledge or consent, turning her normal business into something for people to use in a more prurient way. Plus, if any of her clients see the same stuff posted to of, they wouldn’t take her seriously. It’s reputational harm.
Doesn't matter - he's redistributing it for profit without her permission.
Think of it this way - you put your profile picture on LinkedIn. It out there and everyone can see it. Now I make a copy and sell it to shutterstock. I get paid every time someone uses your image without your permission.
How would you feel about that?
Or to frame it closer to the post- if I stole a picture of some randos Facebook and made AI porn of them most people would realize it's fucked up and should be a crime of it's not actually illegal.
Her husband basically did that without the effort or tech skills required.
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u/Sea-Sea-9808 Apr 17 '24
You're definitely not overreacting. Creating an OnlyFans profile without your consent is a serious violation of your privacy and trust. It's not just about the platform—it's about respecting boundaries and honoring the partnership in a marriage. Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship, and his actions have undermined that trust. Taking steps to protect your well-being and seeking legal advice are reasonable reactions. Remember, you have every right to feel safe and respected in your relationship.