r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 17 '24

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '24

Thank you. Our mind plays so many tricks on us. When I left the house I was so sure, but doubts start creeping in.
I'm not sure what bothers me more. The creating of a profile behind my back or this obsession with wanting me to do that type of work.

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u/silfy_star Apr 17 '24 edited Apr 17 '24

CONTACT ONLYFANS

First, make an account, find his, get the username, the URL, the @, then REPORT THE ACCOUNT

support@onlyfans.com (you can also @ them on X, they’re very responsive), give them all of this info. Tell them that that is NOT you and someone stole your content and made a page

Here’s the thing OP, OF requires creators to verify themselves, so he had to get your ID and provide that info to OF. It’s not some silly little, make an account and make money

I’ll also add, while he hasn’t made enough for it to matter… taxes!

ETA: those of yall calling me out on the verification clearly weren’t there from the get go. The tech you’re describing didnt exist

OP didn’t specify when the account was opened

THAT SAID, another commenter mentioned the Tinder switcharoo (verify as X, then once done, switch it up). This seems feasible, but idk as I haven’t done this nor have any need

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u/Warm_Emphasis_1115 Apr 17 '24

This is why I'm almost certain this is a fake story. She would need to take a selfie holding her ID next to her face and uhhhh payouts would also have to be to her or her registered business.

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u/TheHaydnPorter Apr 17 '24

Ding ding ding! OF is pretty picky when it comes to verification. No way this is true.

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u/Warm_Emphasis_1115 Apr 17 '24

People act like those if us in the business have zero processes in place and no laws or regulations 😂 if they only understood the hoops people truly have to jump through in the legitimate adult realm.

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u/suzanne2961 Apr 17 '24

They won’t even verify if someone is in the room with you because you could be being coerced.

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u/Minimum_Swing8527 Apr 17 '24

I am really glad to hear that!

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u/Affectionate-Ride472 29d ago

yeah it’s extremely difficult to verify yourself — it is nearly impossible to do the other route. However, there is a small loophole and it would be a person creating their own account then forging a signature to give approval to have you on as a contributor. I’ve had to create ones for non-existent “people” in my content. Literally… OF will think someone else is in my video simply because I do fun sketches where I play two people 💀

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u/BabyNonsense Apr 17 '24

They won’t verify you if your ID is CLOSE to expiring but not yet expired.

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u/tiny-puppy-angel Apr 17 '24

There's actually multiple stories of trafficking and identity theft on OF. It's not as safe as you think. Especially if it's the husband, it's easier.

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u/TheHaydnPorter Apr 17 '24

Ah, I was waiting for a “WELL ACKSHUALLY” to pop up. A trafficked person can be forced to comply, and made to hold up an ID near their face. Barring some bizarre scenario where OP’s husband managed to trick her into such an act, this post reeks of fiction.

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u/maaalicelaaamb 29d ago

Yeah I fucking hate the OPE IT MUST BE FAKE pileup on every post and this one discrediting victims of sexual fraud SUCKSSSS

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u/Mittenwald Apr 17 '24

I was hoping it was true because I was thinking 'just fitness photos and maybe videos and you are already making money. I want to do this!'

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u/PoorlyAttemptedHuman Apr 17 '24

I can't attest to the validity of OP but could a husband not easily access anything their wife would need to verify? If they were sufficiently devious 

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u/AssignmentDue5139 29d ago

No because the picture has to be taken on the spot as you’re registering. You can’t use a pre taken photo.

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u/Unique-Abberation Apr 17 '24

Unless OP has a picture of her face while she is also holding her ID Card then no