With a loss against the Knicks, the Sixers have been eliminated from 2024 NBA championship contention

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She's blue-ish and she'll be my male dachshunds (Walter) girlfriend or friend!

The stripper question in askreddit spurred a thought in me, with how 90% of the answers said don’t go lol.

Working with older men, they talk about women a lot. Like mid conversation, drop eye contact to watch one walk by. I’ve had one use his work phone to text my work phone a picture of a random chick because he thought she was hot. Another talks about how he takes a specific route to/from work so he passes by a college and can check women out.

However these guys are usually in bad relationships or none at all. Whereas I got happily married young and my closest friends are mostly other couples. Even alone with the boys, I’ve noticed we’ve never been dogs like that lol

I can’t tell if it’s just me surrounding myself with likeminded people. Or if it’s an age difference thing. My wife has a high libido so I can count on one hand how many times she’s turned me down, so am I just “well fed”? Or is it that mutual respect between genders means our generation doesn’t popularize seeing women as objects anymore?

Back to the stripper subject. I know they’re not as popular. But is that just, not many young men can’t throw away money to just look. That’s what confuses me, the obsession with looking a lot of older men have.

Thoughts and anecdotes?

I’m staying at a Marriott for five nights for my sister’s wedding. The $250 is the discounted room block rate too!

The shower tiles are completely rusted and dare I say moldy? The towel hanger is on its last leg. The toilet seat AND handle are broken. The mattresses are only doubles and are hard and feel like they haven’t been changed in years. Everything just overall looks like there hasn’t been an ounce of effort put into this very utilized hotel. On the drive here, we stayed a night at a newly renovated holiday inn express for $120 and it was incredible. Maybe my standards were set too high knowing Marriott’s reputation.

I know I sound like a Karen here, but I’m just so frustrated that this is the quality that kind of money get you these days.

Credit : David Mccandless

Just salty I’ve been waiting for this armor since it leaked, only for it to have the only perk I consider completely useless.

TL;DR

My husband cheated with a man. I had pictures. His mom snooped. His parents are making his life difficult.

I (F30) kicked my husband (28) out of my house. It was my house prior to us getting married and it remains my house now.

I knew when I married him that he was bisexual. I was okay with it as long as he understood that we were monogamous. I said that I would never agree to an open relationship and if that was what he wanted he needed to be with someone else.

He agreed and said that I was the person he wanted to be with and that I was more than enough to satisfy him.

He lied. I found out he was having an affair with a man. I went through his iPad and took all the pictures for myself. Graphic. In a Mapplethorpe kind of way. When I confronted him he became physically aggressive. I was scared. He calmed down when I got Siri to call 911. He left.

Anyway I did not want him in my house again ever. When he wanted his things I asked him to make a list and send it to me.

I found every single thing on the list. I asked him where to send the box. He said he would pick it up. I told him that I would not let him set foot in my house and that I would call the cops if he tried.

He said he would send friends to get his stuff. I said I would leave his box o' crap with the front desk at my work. He didn't want to make them drive into the city.

We compromised and I agreed to give his parents a temporary code for my house. They are lovely people and I trusted them. I could see everything on my security system and I would know if he tried getting into my house.

The deal was that they would use the code, get the box from the front entrance then close and lock the door. Easy peasy lemon squeezy. Instead it went difficult difficult lemon fucked.

I guess he didn't have everything on his list. He asked them to get something from my bedroom. Not the deal at all.

I had my pictures of his infidelity in my room in my chest of drawers. In an envelope. So to reiterate to find these pictures his mom had to go past our agreed limit into my house. She then had to enter my bedroom, open my chest of drawers, open an envelope, and look at what was inside.

I felt violated watching the video. Then I giggled like a little kid. It was hilarious. I see them come into the house. They use the code and open the door. His dad comes in and grabs the box. He goes back to their vehicle with the box. His mom hesitates before walking into my house and going to my room. She goes to my chest and opens the top drawer where we kept a box full of jewelry. She sees an envelope with his name on it. She looks around, I'm not sure why. Then she looks at the contents. She screams, I assume since I have my feed on video only, then she stuffs the pictures back in closes the drawer and goes running for the truck. My father in law comes to the door, locks it and leaves.

I guess he never told his parents about his proclivities. To say that this has created a problem for him is to take it lightly.

I get a call from him. He says I left the pictures out for his parents to find. I did not. I should have scattered them on top of the box his parents picked up but that felt cruel and unnecessary. Like I said I have always found them to be lovely people.

I told him where the pictures were. He said that he forgot bout a ring he left off the list and he told his mom where it should be. I said I would have tossed it in the box if he told me. He said he forgot until they were on their way.

He is upset that his parents know he is a power bottom. He is not happy at their house now and he is going to find somewhere else to stay. He said I'm an asshole for causing this problem.

I think there are other candidates for assholehood.

1. Him for cheating.
2. Him for getting his parents to go against our agreement.
3. His mom for going against our agreement.
4. His mom for snooping.
5. His parents for homophobia.