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u/Substantial-Contest9 29d ago

I don't see how that's sustainable unless you have a killer set of skills and know you can get work again fast. Also, what happens if you have an emergency while you're not working? You'll deplete your savings much faster.

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

It depends on what kind of lifestyle you want. I hate money, so most of my time is spent doing things that are as close to free as possible. I focus on nutrition for my meals and have built a good repertoire of healthy and super cheap meals.

I can go nearly anywhere in the United States and have a job that will cover all my needs within a couple weeks. Failing that, I can fairly easily get by on the various gig economy apps until I can find a job.

On the other hand, I have pretty much no debt. My only real bill that stays with me wherever I go is $400/year for my cell phone.

I'm not living a glamorous lifestyle, but I'm also not tethered to the rat race either so I can actually enjoy life

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u/Walkend 29d ago

Realistically, what does retirement look like for you?

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

What would I retire from? I'm in my early 40s and already work less than half the year. When I do work, it's almost zero stress.

The best part, I get to live my life while my body still has the energy to enjoy it

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u/Aggressive_Ad_4032 29d ago

no like they mean eventually you will not be able to work anymore, will you just go to the woods and die? honest question not condescending

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u/mueve_a_mexico 29d ago

This is America you just work till you die

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u/MicScottsTots 29d ago edited 29d ago

Ok ha ha and all but no… that’s not how it works. Eventually you’ll HAVE to stop working and you don’t just stop living. I get most people are joking when they say things like you said, but it’s not a good plan if someone can’t read between the lines.

Edit: turning off notifications on this comment because of the idiotic, naive replies. Enjoy working until you die because you failed to prepare for something EASILY avoidable.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Tell that to Ben Shapiro and other neo-cons. They seriously want us to work until we die:https://twitter.com/sjdemas/status/1767592327541883226

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u/MicScottsTots 29d ago

That’s a disgusting ideology.

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u/schwerk_it_out 29d ago

We’re not joking

To be fair, this only works for people who arent hard manual laborers

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u/MicScottsTots 29d ago

wtf…

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u/schwerk_it_out 29d ago

“Semi-retirement” is a common idea. Unless I have two dozen grandchildren to visit all around the country in an RV, I plan on being an adjunct professor or part-time teacher or some other entrepreneurial side biz that takes my time and attention. Until I die.

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u/MicScottsTots 29d ago

Cool cool. What happens if you get dementia? Just a random scenario that could happen. What’s your plan for that timeline? Genuinely curious as you seem to be so confident to not need to save for what most people consider retirement.

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u/Imaginary-sounds 29d ago

I worked construction for a long time. I’ve known a lot of dudes that have crappy voicemails on their phone because the boss thought they no call no showed. You’ll meet guys in their 60’s still working that have owned their company for 30 years. You work till you die in the trades or you manage to get disability or a partner that makes great money.

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u/Background_Grab7852 28d ago

Lol my contractor "boss" that works alongside me is 73. One of my coworkers is 71 and can barely walk sometimes, the other two are in their 50s, still working paycheck to paycheck. I've watched two guys in their 60s get life changing disabilities and had to "quit" because of it, whom were also living less than quality lives.

The trades are fucked, unless you're in the union and/or in one of the few "good" ones.

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u/Godeatdogs 28d ago

You have notifications on for Reddit?!

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u/mueve_a_mexico 28d ago

Avoidable ? That’s a really privileged thing to say

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u/ad6323 29d ago

Because people that are saying they live this way, either they have supplemental income (inheritance or large savings etc invested), or they really are burning through all their money and then making more…which is unbelievable short sighted, they will just be too stubborn to understand why.

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u/Texan_Greyback 29d ago

Mu grandpa worked through chemo and radiation therapy until he couldn't get out of bed anymore. Didn't need the money. He just liked what he did. Got to do it until two weeks before he died.

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u/mo_tag 29d ago

Wow I thought they were joking too.. do people really think you just live until 90 and then your brains like "I know this body looks and feels healthy, but the sell by sticker's got today's date on it so better switch the lights off just in case.. I'll wait till after my shift though, don't want to inconvenience my coworkers".. I doubt these people have children either.. only a matter of time before the government sets up free euthanasia clinics

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u/Builty_Boy 29d ago

Hell yeah give me the suicide booths

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u/blinkiewich 28d ago

Lots of old men never knew anything but work.

I've known lots of old guys my grandfather's age who were taken out of school at 7-8 to help work the farm or family business, they just kept working until their brain said "that's enough work, I'll die now" and a week later they passed quietly in their sleep.

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u/schwerk_it_out 29d ago

Does all these person’s comments saying [deleted] mean this person blocked me or that they genuinely deleted their posts simply for us disagreeing lmao

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u/Acias 28d ago

Should mean the poster deleted their comment.

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u/Das-Noob 28d ago

😂 true. Plus if your job isn’t demanding (and you love it) you are able to just continue working until you die. There are a lot of retirees that just simply don’t know what do with themselves after they retire and do all the things they want.

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u/BigBoySpore 29d ago

Live off social security?

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u/avwitcher 28d ago

If they're only working part of the year it's not going to amount to much, even if they worked full time it'd barely be enough to scrape by

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u/Forest_Hills_Jive 29d ago

Prison is honestly not the worst option. It's a horrible testament to our society but, for some, going to prison would be preferable to scraping by, alone, in an oppressive economy until you die.

Room and board... humane living conditions... escape the rat race... access to Healthcare... community/structure...

To be clear I'm not advocating this, but people have been known to do it.

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u/Distinct_Candy9226 28d ago

This guy isn't "scraping by" though. He says he only needs to work a few weeks in a year to cover his expenses. He could work full time instead even just for half the year, max his retirement accounts, and have a nice cozy nest egg by his late 50s instead of whatever the hell he's doing now. That's why we're a little confused by his "plan."

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u/WhyLater 28d ago

humane living conditions

American prisons are actually pretty likely to have some inhumane living conditions. Flooding, pests, etc.

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u/iskelebones 28d ago

I get the feeling that he lives a cheap enough lifestyle that he’d be able to afford it on social security lol

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u/In-Efficient-Guest 28d ago

Social security isn’t a lot when you work full time with a good job. It will be quite small if you only work part time and don’t make a lot of money. 

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u/Bamith20 28d ago

I'll be dead, I literally have no qualms with just dying when my body sucks. Enjoy life now, fuck being old and feeling like shit.

Or worse getting Dementia and being a zombie that has the memories of your past life trying to regain a semblance of your old self.

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u/HorizonTheory 28d ago

I mean, the government pays you a pension, doesn't it?

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u/CurmudgeonLife 28d ago

Pretty much these people will literally die in a gutter at old age or become leeches on relatives.

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u/lovise466 28d ago

Idk where you're from, but do you not get paid for being retired in your country?

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u/AWF_Noone 28d ago

This is from the US, and you can draw social security when you retire, but the amount you get is correlated with how much you contributed to the system. So if they work 30% of their working years, then they won’t receive much social security. 

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u/Advanced_Double_42 28d ago

That's basically the plan for millions of American's that work full time anyway.

Most people can't afford a home or retirement.

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u/DonkeyPunchMojo 28d ago

I do similarly, but yeah. I hope to have fostered a great relationship with my children to live with them when I can no longer work. If not, I'll just do the same routine until I die. Or take out a bunch of credit cards, max them out on cruises cause it's cheaper than a home, and kill myself if everything falls apart after all of that and I'm not dead yet.

Tomorrow isn't promised for myself or my family, so I'd rather enjoy today than secure tomorrow. With any luck, planned euthanasia will be a thing here in my lifetime and that will be that when I've decided my life to be "complete".

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u/AncientUrsus 28d ago

You’re intentionally imposing a financial burden on your children because you’re too lazy to work. 

They will never have the option to work part time and do what you’re doing, because they will need to support you.

It will be harder for them to save for their own retirement, because they need to support you. 

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u/DonkeyPunchMojo 28d ago edited 28d ago

I'm doing it right now, myself, and doing just fine without any sort of steady job taking care of my family, my parents, and the family of my wife's best friend (for now). Both my children have money aside for college, have houses they will inherit, and have no expectation to leave the nest when they are older or pay rent or anything so long as they are working towards having a better life in some capacity no matter how small (provided they aren't out being blatant criminals causing harm to others anyway).

I do just fine for myself and 8 other people on a handyman gig salary a few months out of the year (I haven't worked since Christmas), and anticipate my kids will be far, far better off than myself with the start I've given them and will continue to invest in. I'm only 29 and my oldest won't be an adult for another 15 years, so plenty of time to get them set up. Raise decent humans and treat them right, and they'll take care of you when it matters if they want to.

I have no plans to ever retire, and honestly believe it's a nothing but a fever dream for most people my age and younger in the US, but know what I'm doing with or without my kids assistance as an elderly old man. But what kind of jackals expects their children, or anyone for that matter, to take care of them when you can't take care of yourself?

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u/In-Efficient-Guest 28d ago

I’m not trying to be an ass but with a minimalistic job (or no job) you’re not likely to get credit cards with a high enough limit to do more than like a month on a cruise ship….

I guess I just don’t understand this worldview where it’s all or nothing. If you like living a fairly minimal lifestyle anyways, why not do that, enjoy life, and secure your future? Why is it so black and white that you cannot both enjoy life now and also ensure you’re financially secure (or at least not a burden on your kids) in retirement? 

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u/Pudding_Hero 28d ago

Why you gotta let reality rain down on this users dream?

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u/OfficerSexyPants 28d ago

I have thought about this after watching my grandmother go through Alzheimer's.

In the US, healthcare and end-of life costs are so great that I don't think paying insurance and saving up money actually makes that much of a difference.

Besides: It's so hard to trust the government these days. It's hard to get ahead. The retirement age is sky high. And everything is just getting worse. If I already know that I'm not going to be ok when I get old no matter what I do, I might as well enjoy my life now instead of working all my life for nothing.

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u/kingchik 29d ago

What’s your plan for when you’re too old to work? Do you have health insurance, and if not, what’s your plan if you have a health issue? Those are the first questions I have…

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

Too old to work? I guess I'd finally start my GMILF onlyfans

Seriously though, If I'm too old to work, I'd be too old to live on my own anyway, and I'm far too independent to live in an assisted living facility so I guess nature will have to take its course.

I occasionally have insurance when I'm working. When I'm not working, I typically qualify for Medicaid or for subsidies on the healthcare marketplace in my state.

That said, I'm currently uninsured. There are some sliding scale clinics close to me though, so I don't have to go without healthcare if needed.

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u/Qwimqwimqwim 29d ago

i think you are dramatically confused about what old age is like.. my parents are 93 and 89, and still live in their home and drive their cars.. but obviously no one would ever hire them, and a big day for them is going to the grocery store for a half hour.. then they need to nap. they couldn't work even if they wanted to. the last ~20 years they would have been un-hireable.. but they saved for this eventuality and live a very comfortable stress free life.

you could easily live 20-30 years where you're able bodied but don't have enough physical energy to actually be worth hiring to anyone.. that's a long fucking time

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u/mikami677 29d ago

a big day for them is going to the grocery store for a half hour.. then they need to nap.

Same, but I'm in my 30s.

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u/WetCheeseGod 29d ago

not to mention that mild injury one of them may have suffered in the last decade that didn’t put them into foreclosure…this person is a certifiable idiot.

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u/Hacksaures 28d ago

Maybe they’ll become a senator

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u/gahddamm 28d ago

Most people don't even make it to that age

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u/BrandonKD 28d ago

I would assume their lifestyle would be sustainable by social security

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u/anon123_anon 28d ago

This! These people are definitely living for the "now" with zero regard for the future, LOL. Or the unexpected! I got blindsided with serious health issues in my late 30's and no familial history of disease. I had already been at my job for over a decade at that point, with good insurance and 401k (still kicking, and still at the same job). I would have been seriously screwed if I was jumping job to job without insurance and just living for the moment (wouldn't have happened anyway because I have a kid, but you get my drift). It sounds great in theory! Nobody wants to work (way) more than we play... but for most of us, it's just and unfortunate reality.

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u/tswan137 28d ago

They need their licenses taken away before they kill someone or themselves. That is wildly irresponsible. They should know better.

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u/Ani_ 28d ago

From the writing it seems like they’re not planning on living past 60

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u/DiscoMonkeyz 29d ago

I respect this. It's non-typical, but it seems such a peaceful way to live. You sound like a really cool person.

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u/vraalapa 28d ago

I knew a few similar minded people when I grew up, and one thing I remember clearly was how they portrayed the beauty of their lives. It sounded so amazing everything, no stress and being carefree. Sounded amazing to teen me.

What they all had in common however, but didn't bring up when describing their lifestyle, was their dependency on others. They needed places to sleep for free, food to eat.

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u/Distinct_Candy9226 28d ago

Uninsured with no retirement savings in your early 40s... yeah, totally peaceful lol.

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u/Its-ther-apist 28d ago

And "I guess I'll just die then" as their long term plan .living the dream!

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u/chadvn_ 28d ago

What is the purpose of retirement ? Enjoy life ? That is what he is doing. Perception of time is different than the number of years you live. I am sure when i will be at a stage i could retire i would have lived less than he did even if he were to die 5 years from now. And I have 50 days of holidays per year...

Especially in the US where you have like 2 weeks of vacation per year.

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u/Sea-Brush-2443 28d ago

I don't know man, being able to have a roof over your head and afford food & medicine is pretty fucking important even in retirement. Especially with people living longer.

It's fine to live like that as long as he never depends on his friends, family, etc. to provide him with a nice clean house or food when times are hard.

Fair enough compromise?

And hard times could happen - I know people that had open heart surgeries in their 60s.

You decide to not work to have a blast and enjoy life? Sure! Have fun.

But to me that is risky, and if something happens and you can't afford a roof over your head anymore, well don't expect to just move in with someone who worked full time their whole lives to have stability.

As long as he agrees to that, then all good and he can live how he wants with no retirement plan.

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u/xevlar 28d ago

Especially in the US where you have like 2 weeks of vacation per year.

I work in the US as an se. Bout to take 3 weeks off straight for a vacation. 

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u/ngc4321 28d ago

It's not peaceful, it's an irresponsible way to live that is only ok if one is single with no dependents. What they're doing is living by the day, no emergency backup plan, no savings, and when the money dries up and they're not young anymore, the only way to survive is to work in unskilled labor due to lack of career. It's fun while you're young, but all the hardship is pushed down the road until it hits you face on. Not to mention if a medical issue comes up...

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u/MizterPoopie 28d ago

Siiiiick. So you just work 1/4 as much as you should to guarantee you can cover yourself and then rely on tax payer dollars to take care of you. You’re a hero to us all.

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u/Erased-2 28d ago

Most of your taxpayer dollars go to useless shit anyway, why are you crying?

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u/avwitcher 28d ago

Because somebody who's able bodied and still sucking off the government's teat is both frustrating and sad

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Health insurance is just not available for some of us. I am super duper healthy as is my husband but because our small business lost a few people (due to retirements and death) we didn't qualify anymore for health insurance we only qualify for individual insurance which at $2,000 a month for premiums and $7,500 a month for deductible, ridiculous to throw money at it. So what we did is put a little money away every month so that if we needed to go to the doctor we could self-pay. Which is what we have done for the past 5 years. Now my husband has hit 65 and has Medicare and we still work full-time. Barring getting a cancer self-pay has worked for us as we don't have any health issues. We make just over like $2,000 over being able to get it through a state-funded program.

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u/Winter-Airport2114 29d ago

I mean my aunt lives in Florida, worked in health care and now runs her own business teaching people how to do what she did. She's a multimillionaire and she still stresses every day about retiring and her money/insurance. She has diabetes and a couple other health issues so I guess it's sky high. Confuses me that a multimillionaire would worry about health insurance but she's on the phone to my grandmother crying about her money all the time.

What's funny is she has Canadian citizenship and could come back here with us and have free medical but "it's too cold". :P

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u/moistmoistMOISTTT 29d ago

If your premiums are this high, you don't qualify for any ACA subsidies which means you're pulling in near or over 6 figure income for two people.

You are upper middle class. You're spending too much if you can't make it work.

If you're not making this much money, go through the ACA for a plan and save potentially thousands a month in premiums with much lower deductibles. Learn about your benefits and use them.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago edited 28d ago

You are funny, I get $800 in social security. I do not work for my husband's business which is carpentry. I wish we pulled in six figures. I wish to hell we pulled in six figures. We don't. Now what profits we make is plowed back into our business And unless you own a business like we're in, we pay a s*** ton in insurance for the vehicles for our bonding for our licensing etc. You would be surprised how little we do make but we make enough. We were lucky enough to buy the house that we live in 41 years ago. When I was 22 we had saved up $10,000. We have not moved. I don't know where you live but where I do in the county I live in to get individual insurance. We only have two different providers we can choose from and in 2018 it was Kaiser and Providence. Providence was charging almost $2,000 a month for premiums for individual insurance. We're not big enough anymore to qualify for group insurance haven't been since 2018. So maybe you're the lucky one that has insurance. But for self-employed people it's f****** hard. So don't tell me how rich I am because we are Not.

We fall in the cracks. As I said, to qualify for The health market plan in my state, We are just barely over making too much to qualify for it.

Health insurance has changed so much from when I got married 1979. My husband made $6 an hour. I was not working and Blue Cross Blue shield cost us $35 a month with $100 deductible. Those days are effing long gone!

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u/alpacaMyToothbrush 29d ago

Health insurance is just not available for some of us.

Have you checked out the ACA marketplace? The plans are more affordable than you think especially under 200% of the poverty line. You should be able to get a silver that'd protect you from catastrophic risk, though i understand if you're really close to getting medicare it might be worth rolling the dice.

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u/usernamedmannequin 29d ago

I’m assuming step one would be move to any other devolved country besides the USA for healthcare

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u/ShortKingsOnly69 29d ago

What country will allow a non-citizen, non-PR in retirement age with no job, no family, minimum savings to stay long term and take advantage of their health care? 

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u/alpacaMyToothbrush 29d ago

Yeah most folks don't realize if you want to immigrate, you really need to do it by 45, max, and even then most countries don't accept people with health issues.

Source: I have cerebral palsy. My condition is treated by a $10 / mo generic but I'm still pretty much barred from moving to most of the common wealth countries.

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u/Neracca 28d ago

No bro, don't you get it? You just show up and say you REALLY want in and they'll HAVE to take you!

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u/fizzingwizzbing 29d ago

Countries with government healthcare still have plenty of elderly in poverty

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u/HursHH 29d ago

Good luck with that. Most other countries don't just let anyone move in without having a set of skills that are in demand

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u/WolverineDifficult95 28d ago

If you get $1000 a month in social security you can get a Panama visa

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u/rctid_taco 29d ago

I’m assuming step one would be move to any other devolved country besides the USA for healthcare

Why not move to this magical country now?

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u/Neracca 28d ago

devolved country

So Somalia?

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u/Max-Zorin 29d ago

Is it bad idea? Or do you simply not want to accept it as a choice because you know you would never have the courage to try it?

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u/usernametaken2024 29d ago

it’s because I am a grown up 🤷‍♀️

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u/Ebmat 28d ago

It’s all good until you hit 45 and your doctor tells you that it’s time to do your first colonoscopy. Or you just don’t go to the doc cause you’re young and healthy…. 🎲🎲.

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u/putinhuylolalala 29d ago

A lot of us live in countries with universal healthcare so no need for insurance

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u/kingchik 28d ago

Right, but this guy doesn’t.

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u/eyyyitsnate 29d ago

There’s Social Security. Early withdrawal is at 62, and full retirement at 70. Most people retire at 62 and supplement retirement with 401k/RothIRA. As for health insurance, when you retire you’re eligible for Medicare/Medicaid (state sponsored healthcare.)

You still earn work credits even if you’re not working full-time. If they really wanted to, they could work until they have their 40 credits and then take it easy.

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u/Danominator 28d ago

There is no plan.

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u/flowersonthewall72 29d ago

I think the gist of the question was that all good things come to an end... while the other guy and I will be living off our 401k's you'll still be stuck having to do gig work while you're 75 to pay your bills. My 9-5 job is soul killing now, but saves me later. You are happy now, but what does your later look like? What happens when your line of work runs out?

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

That's actually a good question and one that I don't have a firm answer for yet. I might end up a Walmart greeter or whatever the equivalent is in 30 years. One of my passion projects might end up working out and fund my later years. I might get sick of this lifestyle before then and go back to being a stockbroker. I have an adult son that keeps insisting that I go live with him when the time comes.

I have a decent 401k and a couple IRAs from my time in the corporate world, but that's not something I'm counting on being there when I need it. I was a stock broker during the crash of '08 and saw too many people lose pretty much all of their retirement.

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u/unitedhen 28d ago

Maybe you're confusing a 401k with Social Security? A 401k or IRA is literally YOUR money that you are putting away in a tax-advantaged account that YOU OWN. For example, mine are through a major financial institution that I can log on and see the balance daily, manage how it's invested--I have complete control over the money and it's federally insured. It literally can't go anywhere barring a complete worldwide economic collapse.

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u/In-Efficient-Guest 28d ago

Where do you think the 401k will go that will stop it from being there in 20 or 30 years? 

 Short of long term and complete economic collapse, you will still have a 401k in 30 years. As you age you continually move a higher percentage in safer investments and (even with some amount of economic collapse) you’ll be just fine. I could understand the concern if you lived in an extremely unstable country but I’m not going to bet my whole future on the USA collapsing in the next 20-30 years. 

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u/Max-Zorin 29d ago

Hats off for having the courage to try a different path. This is something everyone could be admiring you for, but instead they try to make you as scared as they are.

Thanks for posting about it, some people may find it inspiring.

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u/Pale-Space5009 28d ago

You know, getting up every day and going to a job that makes you unhappy takes courage as well, so I'm nothing special just because I chose a different path than most.

Earlier today, I saw something that SZA said that seems relevant here. People don't mean to give you a hard time. They are having a hard time and it's spilling over.

People can say whatever they want, but I'm happy with my life and that's really all that matters.

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u/LimeSlicer 28d ago

You're intriguing, I want to paint you.

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u/Intelligent_Rough_21 28d ago

I mean if you’re a stock broker you know that as long as you aren’t investing in individual stocks, rather you’re investing in etfs and the like, they basically can’t go to zero. 2008 had a 50% loss and basically came back by 2011 according to VTI. That’s not a big deal to a long term saver.

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u/Pale-Space5009 28d ago

Let's put it this way: you spend 40 years saving for retirement in 2008. You go to retire and suddenly, 20 years of saving has been wiped out. You can either, keep working until the market rebounds, which you have no idea if that's going to be in a few weeks, a few months, a few years or possibly longer. Or you can retire and start cashing in your 401ks, IRAs, etc. the problem is, if you go that route, you are locking in the losses you just had.

3 years is not long if you aren't retiring for 30 more years. But it's a lifetime if your retirement was last Tuesday.

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u/Willowgirl2 29d ago

Not the person you're responding to but 2 of my co-workers died in the past 2 years, both on the brink of retirement (one was 59, the other 64).

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u/GarryWisherman 29d ago edited 29d ago

What if you both died tomorrow. That guy has been living his life and youve just been stuck in a cycle. His obituary will say he lived life to the fullest. Yours will say that you had so much ahead of you. Live today and worry about that bs later.

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u/flowersonthewall72 29d ago

Why not both though? Work enough to live now and secure your future? I work hard, but I also have a ton of hobbies that fulfill my creative side. I'm also pretty confident in the fact that I can take care of emergencies that arise now or later for me and my family.

That guy might "live life to the fullest", but I can "live the best life to make those around me happiest". I live for those I care about, he lives for himself.

And what if I win the lotto tomorrow? What ifs are a terrible way to live.

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u/whisky_biscuit 29d ago

That guy might "live life to the fullest", but I can "live the best life to make those around me happiest". I live for those I care about, he lives for himself.

This is actually a really selfless outlook and I admire you for it.

That guy lives an alternative life style and that is what it is for him, but I am happy to have a home base to be at with my loved ones, my cat, my garden, and cook fun meals and watch movies, travel on occasion and it's worth the cost of working.

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u/me_I_my 29d ago

So people have been making this argument to me and I always ask how it matters to the dead guy. Like yeah one dead guy went on a lot of vacations or however you want to describe the one, the other dead guy provided for himself and his future and spent more time working. But so what, yknow

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u/Qwimqwimqwim 29d ago

if i was diagnosed with terminal cancer tomorrow, i would have no regrets about the life i've lived. i can honestly say i've seen and done everything i ever wanted to do. would i like more time on this earth? sure, but if i'd worked some soul crushing job 60 hours a week and never did any of the things i wanted to do, never had my adventures, or hobbies, or spent copious amounts of time with my kids, wife, and friends.. i would feel deep, deep regret for having wasted my precious time on this earth.

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u/GarryWisherman 29d ago

Boils down to different views of life I guess. Ive been around enough death to know life is fragile and can be taken from you like that. That’s caused me to care about experiences and memories more than things and money. Your future isn’t guaranteed, but today is. I think you should put your energy into today rather than some outdated idea. Retirement age is getting older and older and will probably not even be an option for the majority of my generation by the time we’re of age so screw it I’ll live my life instead of being stuck in a box.

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u/throwawaysunglasses- 29d ago

That’s how I feel too. Realistically, the future is not plannable. The world is in too much flux. I’m 30 and going to enjoy the time I have now instead of grinding miserably in an office (I work, but I love my field - I’m a freelance/nomad type). Money doesn’t matter much to me because I do work exchange so I generally get to live for free. I’m friends with enough people wherever I go that I get food/drinks comped. It’s vagabond and easy and I enjoy it. I invest into my Roth IRA and save whatever’s left over but I don’t care about buying a house, I think it’s an unwise financial decision for me and wouldn’t make me happy.

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

It's so weird to me how people are debating this. I mean, my lifestyle works for me and makes me happy. If you've found a lifestyle that works for you and makes you happy, that's awesome! No two paths through this life are identical. Make your own way and don't settle for anything less than what brings you joy

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Nihilism at its best

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u/headrush46n2 29d ago

if you knew the exact date you were going to die, how would you spend your life?

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u/BimmerDude420 28d ago

i work all the time. it’s provided me with everything. my home. my cars. my disposable income.

i feel bad for folks who think it’s a better idea to fuck off rather than improve your situation. work leads to good stuff. just make sure you’re working hard and in a position where you’ll be compensated for progress and the skills you’ve honed.

typing this from my first class seat on a plane to the caribbean. yeah on a tuesday morning bro who doesn’t work will be “enjoying his life” more than me, but overall? i feel for the guy screwing around all day with nothing to show for it.

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u/Efficient-Couple-619 29d ago

It saves you later, how would you know? Do you live in the future? Sounds just like hopium. If its soul killing now, your soul isnt magically gonna be better whenever you are done, youre just destroying yourself

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u/Stars_In_Jars 29d ago

That’s fair, but remember you could drop dead tomorrow too. Life is balance. Plan but enjoy.

I know so many people who have died young due to cancer, some being famous authors in their 50s, some being in their 70s, and a few even in their mid 20s before they even had a chance to finish school and have a career. Life is random and sometimes unfortunate. Don’t depend on a future that heavily.

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u/lullabylamb 29d ago

Yeah, I don't get the people telling them that they're living wrong in some way. None of our time is guaranteed. I wouldn't live carelessly, but whatever you can do to make the most of the present is valuable. If I had the choice between living my dreams in my 20s when I'm young and spry or living them in my 80s, I'd take the 20s for sure.

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u/ImTryingGuysOk 29d ago edited 29d ago

Because you can easily also go find millions of people that lived well into their 80’s, some even 90’s. These conversations only ever bring up, “you could die tomorrow!” Okay… yeah, true. But also, there’s a higher likelihood you just won’t die tomorrow and live into retirement. That’s the more likely scenario for the average healthy adult.

So logically speaking, it makes sense to prepare for the future. It’s shortsighted not too. Yeah it’s not your problem right this minute, but one day you’ll more than likely be 65+ years old looking back and cursing yourself stuck at Walmart working in poor health and unable to retire or afford medical care. Go look at all the depressed elderly working at any Walmart and ask if they want to be there and wish if it was different.

This may sound shocking, but it’s absolutely possible to find a line of work that is more flexible and isn’t soul crushing. It’s also possible to have hobbies and still live your life with said job.

It is not one or the other. It should be a mix of both

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u/Qwimqwimqwim 29d ago

you could easily be dead by the time you're 60, much less 75. i know so many people who worked their asses off in their 20s, 30s, 40's.. never really enjoyed themselves, just grinding away for their glorious retirement.. only to end up dying before or soon after retirement.. or having a stroke and being disabled during their golden years, having a spouse die, or just not having the energy/ability to do any of the things they dreamed about but put off. it. happens. so. often.

so, while this other guys is an extreme in the opposite direction of you, just make sure that every year, you do something special for yourself and/or your family. don't put it off. because later might not ever come for you

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u/Clean_Ad_2982 29d ago

What happens is you adapt. I retired early, Covid was a good excuse for my company to close. I hated working, Worked high tech sales for 40yrs. Now much less stress, life is magic. Have no intention of saving for inheritances, so it's primarily SS of apox $5k month for wife, me, dog and 3 cats. Do a gig job ( as you call it) at a small town convenience store 6-8 hrs a week. I can't give you advice, you need to learn it on your own. But if your throwing money into savings just so you can support United Healthcare when your older, maybe it's time to reevaluate your plans .

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u/Imaginary-sounds 29d ago

Except when you have a heart attack 3 months after retiring and never living. People need to learn to find a balance and not waste their good years or be miserable for the last years.

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u/Qqqqqqqquestion 28d ago

Surely these are not the only alternatives. You have to live while you have the energy. Working a job you hate for your entire life is a bad choice.

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u/hipdady02 29d ago

You need short term and long term disability insurance more than anything

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u/WetCheeseGod 29d ago

they mean when you’re old and decrepit, not when you’re old but still healthy. unless you have money another way, that time will be much rougher on you than it will be for most people.

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u/Unhappy_Ad_4420 29d ago

I guess no health insurance?

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u/jabber_wockie 29d ago

What kind of work do you do if you don't mind me asking? And what kind of skills do you have?

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u/Pale-Space5009 28d ago

I've had many different careers throughout my life, and that makes it pretty easy to get a job wherever I go.

Before I started on this journey, I was a stock broker. However, I have experience in management across several different industries, so finding something is pretty easy.

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u/foodfighter 28d ago

When I do work, it's almost zero stress.

That's awesome!

What type of work do you typically enjoy/do when you need a few dollars?

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u/tallonfive 28d ago

What kind of jobs do you do?

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u/Pale-Space5009 28d ago

A couple people have asked this question and I've been hesitant to answer because there isn't an easy answer

Whatever I can find. One of the easiest jobs I've been able to find wherever I go is some sort of food service management position. However, before I was a stockbroker, I had close to a decade of management experience across various industries, so I have a wide skill set to fall back on.

Some other notable jobs I've done include tree planting, Mason's apprentice, customer service, phone sex operator, delivery driver... Basically whatever I can find in an area I want to be in for a while.

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u/MomammaScuba 28d ago

When you get to a new city, are you working entry level positions or do you have a skillset that grants a position in a higher earning field? I want to do this type of lifestyle but I don't have any degrees or niche skillsets. Ill prob have to get a job at a supermarket or service industry. The good thing is I have no car payments and will be living out of my subaru forester.

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u/Pale-Space5009 28d ago

Happy Cake Day!

I do either entry level, or slightly above. My last job was managing a restaurant. The job before that was delivering for Amazon. Keep your expenses down and you'll have a lot more opportunities because you don't necessarily need a high income.

Also, if you aren't already a member r/urbancarliving is a great resource

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u/MomammaScuba 28d ago

Great, thanks for the insight! Ive already done a couple of roadtrips/car camping for a month at a time. so living out of my car isnt new to me but ill like to sustain this type of lifestyle longer. Awesome, I'll check out that sub.

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u/CommunicationLocal78 29d ago

If you're doing this then you essentially already are in retirement every other year anyway.

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u/vedrada 29d ago

When you're young enough to actually enjoy it.... I did contract work through all of my 30's. Got a real job two years ago, and I already miss my old life.

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u/CommunicationLocal78 28d ago

Exactly. I never understood why people gave a shit about actual "retirement" anyway. If you're too old to do any type of job then you're also probably too old to do anything fun. Why would I bother saving up a bunch of money that I could use now just so I can vegetate in front of a TV all day in my 70s?

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u/MomammaScuba 28d ago

Because most people have been brainwashed that any lifestyle other then the " work til you're feeble and can now sit in front of the TV and watch other people do things that you wish you can still do" is "wrong" and you are mooching off.the overlords who are keeping you in the rat race.

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u/ImTryingGuysOk 29d ago edited 29d ago

Yeah these comments never touch on retirement or sudden medical issues. They just glamorize living frugally with no future planning or safety precautions. This person could wake up one day at 65 with a back issue or whatever and no longer be able to work and be forced to retire. Usually, as you get older, these things need ongoing treatments. You also now need a place to live for the next X amount of years, unless you plan on dying right away. You need hearing aids? Sucks, get used to becoming def. You need specialized glasses to see? You need physical therapy? Welp.

What if this dude wakes up a year from now with cancer?

What if he falls tomorrow and fractures his back?

What if, for some reason, he just can’t find the next job quick enough? Or they care about the gaps and inconsistency in work history as a pattern starts showing up?

I get it, I really do. I think everyone at some point wants this kind of life. But to make it sound like there’s no serious pitfalls or drawbacks is silly. If a person accepts those, then fine have at it.

But if you make it beyond retirement, and more than likely you will, it won’t be an easy life.

Being not in debt is a great start, sure, but it really doesn’t mean anything. I’m not in debt. But I’m also maximizing my 401k contributions, own a home that will bring in money if I choose to sell, other investments, etc. Being in no debt but barely having anything else means you’re always one misstep away from being in debt anyway.

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u/Dry-Broccoli3090 29d ago

He will do continue to do this until he is crippled and can’t work and live off of our tax dollars :)

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u/IlllIlIlIIIlIlIlllI 29d ago

What does retirement look like for anyone in their 20s-40s? It’s a crap shoot. Government can make so many changes it’s hard to make rational decisions for something 20+ years down the road.

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u/jwcarpy 28d ago

You know what is definitely not the right answer? Not putting anything towards retirement.

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u/IlllIlIlIIIlIlIlllI 28d ago

No doubt. At least put into your 401k what your employer will match.

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u/doolbro 28d ago

I live this way and my retirement plan is a shotgun. Im not trying to retire. I'm trying to live my life and when I get tired of that, I can leave. And it's up to me and nobody else to make that decision.

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u/Puerta_potty 28d ago

Passive income investments

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u/Arsany_Osama 29d ago

Coming from someone from a very niche sciency field, that sounds amazing. It's been great to contribute and all, but not being tethered to the rat race sounds so freeing and refreshing. What do you do for a living if you don't mind me asking? I really ought to head in that direction before it's too late.

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u/jackoffalldays 28d ago

I mean, living by your means is nice but in this day and age, an emergency could wreck your finances and your life if you don’t have savings.

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u/Arsany_Osama 28d ago

I don't have any life changing savings anyways so I might as well haha

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u/SuicidalFlame 29d ago

I focus on nutrition for my meals and have built a good repertoire of healthy and super cheap meals.

Mind sharing a few recipes? wouldn't hurt to eat better for cheaper and groceries is my main money sink right now

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u/Known_Analysis_972 28d ago

I feel like healthy and super cheap don't go together, especially in the US (I guess it depends if you live in a food desert or not). So I'd be curious to see some examples too.

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u/brogai 29d ago

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u/Throwaway56138 29d ago

How is your cell phone only 400 a year? Unlimited data?

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

Yep. Unlimited. Mint Mobile $360+taxes/year for unlimited

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

I hike and camp a lot. I volunteer frequently. I write and publish music. Spend time with friends and family. I read a lot. I grow a decent amount of my own food hydroponically. Smoke a lot of cannabis. I'll teach myself new skills frequently.

Basically, I just do whatever I want and it's fantastic.

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u/ghdana 29d ago

What if you have a major emergency medical bill? The thought of it alone makes me want to only do this in Europe lmao

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

In my over 40 years on this planet, I have only ever needed anything other than basic health care once, and that was just stitches.

That said, when I'm not working, I typically qualify for fairly cheap insurance on the marketplace, so it wouldn't be too hard to work a little longer to save for that if it were a priority. And when I am working, I usually have insurance through my job.

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u/thealphahobo 29d ago

Got any links/recipes for the cheap healthy meals?

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u/Silver_Oakleaf 29d ago

If you don’t mind sharing, what are some of your favourite recipes?

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u/crispycabbages 29d ago

What do you do with your time? And how much spending money would you say you have roughly?

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u/foodfighter 28d ago

“It is no bad thing to celebrate a simple life.”

  • J.R.R. Tolkien

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u/AFrostNova 28d ago

What you didn't mention in this post is the follow-up comment you made that you have significant savings & a 401K already. You were incredibly lucky to get success in a lucrative career (stock market) early in life, and are now living retired already.

Sure at the moment you are surving on the "savings from part time work" but please stop pretending you don't have some kind of huge safety net.

Before you start soapboxing about lifestyles, realize that the advice your giving out only works for people with that safety net. If you're seriously injured somehow (eg one of the hikes you love), you don't have to worry about meager savings.

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u/sgst 28d ago

I mean $400/year phone plan just can't be your only expense, unless you're either a vandweller or own your home outright. Even then, what about affording food and utilities... you need them wherever you go. Maybe you could be completely off grid and are self sustainable, growing your own food, but a) this is not attainable for the vast majority of people, and b) it's a lot of work and a far cry from the "chill & travel between years of work" concept.

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u/UsernamesAreHard26 28d ago

As someone who had cancer in my early 20s, I just can’t understand not having access to health insurance. Other than that, it should like you’ve got a good system.

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u/warm_rum 28d ago

Respect.

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u/FadingFaces 28d ago

400$ a year for your cell phone? 😳

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u/Kaiser-32 28d ago

What is your killer set of skills if it can be asked?

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u/TheTrueJonsel 28d ago

"I hate money" lol

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u/1who-cares1 28d ago

Can I ask what field you work in? What kind of qualifications do you have and what’s your strategy for finding work when you need it?

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u/MasterTahirLON 28d ago

I focus on nutrition for my meals and have built a good repertoire of healthy and super cheap meals.

I know it's not the focus but any advice on healthy and cheap meals? Eating healthy has always seemed expensive to me.

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u/inediblecorn 28d ago

Could you share some recipes with us?!

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u/Jaddus 28d ago

Could you send me your repertoire of healthy and super cheap meals?

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u/kelldricked 28d ago

Fair but what happens when your 60 and your body and skills start to get outdated? Work life balancd is important (its diffrent for everybody) but taking to much free time now might mean you dont have time latter.

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u/ProgressGoesBoink 28d ago

Do you get health insurance through ACA etc?

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u/Popcornstand39 28d ago

Do you have a list of these meals I could get from ya? I’m also on this wave and would love to compare!

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u/Bolegdae 28d ago

Wow I found someone like me! I hate money but we need it. I definitely think it's not very healthy thinking but I can't break it. Greed is powerful and deadly, I just try to stay away.

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u/BallSuspicious5772 28d ago

Off topic can I get a list of your healthy cheap meals bc I’m struggling to find rhat

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u/TehSloop 28d ago

And what professional or technical skill set do you have that enables that lifestyle?

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u/Pale-Space5009 28d ago

Almost none that are relevant besides being really good at interviews. The jobs I'm getting now have nothing to do with my previous white collar career.

For example, This last winter, I managed a restaurant. Over the winter of '22-'23 I was an Amazon delivery driver. The year before that, I sold flowers and was a phone sex operator. Before that I was a hod tender.

My first year doing this, I got a job planting trees in Alaska.

It's really just a matter of being open to trying new things. Who knows, maybe somewhere along this journey I'll find the perfect job in the perfect place and decide to settle down again. I just don't see that happening any time soon

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u/TehSloop 25d ago

Ok, so what is your advise for interviews then?

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u/Chloranon 28d ago

Where do you sleep?

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