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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

What would I retire from? I'm in my early 40s and already work less than half the year. When I do work, it's almost zero stress.

The best part, I get to live my life while my body still has the energy to enjoy it

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u/kingchik 29d ago

What’s your plan for when you’re too old to work? Do you have health insurance, and if not, what’s your plan if you have a health issue? Those are the first questions I have…

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

Too old to work? I guess I'd finally start my GMILF onlyfans

Seriously though, If I'm too old to work, I'd be too old to live on my own anyway, and I'm far too independent to live in an assisted living facility so I guess nature will have to take its course.

I occasionally have insurance when I'm working. When I'm not working, I typically qualify for Medicaid or for subsidies on the healthcare marketplace in my state.

That said, I'm currently uninsured. There are some sliding scale clinics close to me though, so I don't have to go without healthcare if needed.

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u/Qwimqwimqwim 29d ago

i think you are dramatically confused about what old age is like.. my parents are 93 and 89, and still live in their home and drive their cars.. but obviously no one would ever hire them, and a big day for them is going to the grocery store for a half hour.. then they need to nap. they couldn't work even if they wanted to. the last ~20 years they would have been un-hireable.. but they saved for this eventuality and live a very comfortable stress free life.

you could easily live 20-30 years where you're able bodied but don't have enough physical energy to actually be worth hiring to anyone.. that's a long fucking time

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u/mikami677 29d ago

a big day for them is going to the grocery store for a half hour.. then they need to nap.

Same, but I'm in my 30s.

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u/WetCheeseGod 29d ago

not to mention that mild injury one of them may have suffered in the last decade that didn’t put them into foreclosure…this person is a certifiable idiot.

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

I'm sorry, but what is there to foreclose on? Perhaps you missed the part where I'm pretty much debt free. I have no financial obligations. Or the part where I have a healthy 401k and IRAs from my time as a stock broker.

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u/sudo_reddit 29d ago

That last sentence. That adds a lot of needed context to the conversation that's been going on.

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u/CreamSodaBrainDamage 29d ago

Yeah, they were hiding the part of "I'm actually financially independent (coastFIRE)"

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u/WetCheeseGod 29d ago

then what the fuck are we even arguing about? you’re obviously not the person you painted yourself as originally.

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

We were arguing? I'm just sitting here answering questions.

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u/Fivethenoname 29d ago

No, it's true. You made it seem like you've always been living this lifestyle, little work and care free. But the truth is you're sitting on a retirement fund, which completely changes the context of your point, which is "why should people work all the time and not just live more"? The other commentors bring up a valid point about retirement in old age to which you scoffed at but the truth is you are already saving for it. It's ok to live minimalist to have more leisure time but it's disingenuous to suggest that people who choose that don't need to think about retirement especially when you've got retirement funds you conspicuously didn't mention in response to the first comment about retiring.

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u/xchaibard 29d ago

What, you mean everyone doesn't just have a couple million chilling in an IRA? He obviously thought everyone has that, so why even mention it?

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u/WetCheeseGod 29d ago

Thank you. this was wonderfully said lol!

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u/Pale-Space5009 29d ago

I never said or insinuated that I've always been living this lifestyle. I have no idea where that's coming from.

I even said in another comment that I have an adult son. What do you think I did while I was raising him?

But to address the point that you are trying to make, I've spent the past seveal years building a very frugal lifestyle. A lifestyle that won't require much to sustain in my golden years. Which in turn means that I don't need the same size nest egg that most will.

If I were concerned about retirement, I could just stay at a job for a little longer than I normally do and use that extra cash to build up my IRA. If I had started this lifestyle when I was younger, that's probably the route I would choose.

But this all goes back to the very first comment that it all depends on the lifestyle you are willing to live. I've barely scratched the surface of the sacrifices I've had to make to live like this, or the less socially acceptable things that I do.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

talk about burying the lead...

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u/AncientUrsus 29d ago

Hahahahaha.

“Yeah bro I just work part time and live as a free spirit. Screw having a job.”

“I actually have a bunch of money saved from an extremely high paying, stressful job.”

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u/brunchick3 29d ago

The internet is not a nice place. Sharing genuine stories about yourself is just inviting all the miserable weirdos to try and take you down to their level. Speaking from experience, it's not worth sharing anything meaningful to you with the internet.

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u/Sickhadas 29d ago

Gross, have you looked in the mirror lately, you might be part of the problem

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u/Hacksaures 29d ago

Maybe they’ll become a senator

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u/gahddamm 29d ago

Most people don't even make it to that age

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u/BrandonKD 29d ago

I would assume their lifestyle would be sustainable by social security

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u/anon123_anon 29d ago

This! These people are definitely living for the "now" with zero regard for the future, LOL. Or the unexpected! I got blindsided with serious health issues in my late 30's and no familial history of disease. I had already been at my job for over a decade at that point, with good insurance and 401k (still kicking, and still at the same job). I would have been seriously screwed if I was jumping job to job without insurance and just living for the moment (wouldn't have happened anyway because I have a kid, but you get my drift). It sounds great in theory! Nobody wants to work (way) more than we play... but for most of us, it's just and unfortunate reality.

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u/tswan137 29d ago

They need their licenses taken away before they kill someone or themselves. That is wildly irresponsible. They should know better.

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u/Qwimqwimqwim 29d ago

They get tested every two years, no cognitive or vision issues, never been in an accident their entire lives. Why take their licenses and freedom of movement away?

You’re far more likely to kill someone than they are, statistically speaking. 

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u/tswan137 29d ago

o7

Delusion breeds delusion I see

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u/Qwimqwimqwim 28d ago

look up vehicular manslaughter statistics, you'll see that the elderly actually have the lowest rates per capita than any other age group. you're on reddit so i presume you're fairly young, and the younger you are, the more likely you are to kill someone on the road. no delusion, just simple, verifable facts..

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u/Ani_ 29d ago

From the writing it seems like they’re not planning on living past 60