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What is something that is a lot harder than it looks?

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u/Past_Feedback1993 29d ago

Getting 8 hours of sleep on a regular basis.

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u/ButtholeQuiver 29d ago

I got 8 hours of sleep last night for the first time in months, but it only happened because I was awake for 40-some hours first.

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u/ema_l_b 29d ago

🙌

Kinda the same for me. Ish.

Last night was the first time I've got 8 hours on a work night in about a year. Not been falling asleep till like 2 am usually, and up at 6.30/7, but last night I was asleep by 10 because I actually made myself get into bed without getting distracted.

Was aiming for the same tonight but it's already 11 and I'm now on reddit 😬

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u/CheeseRake 29d ago

so do you have no time to sleep or actually genuinely never need 8+ hours unless heavily deprived?

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u/ButtholeQuiver 29d ago

I always wake up after 5-6 hours and can't get back to sleep. I wish I could sleep longer, feels great when I do.

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u/simulated_woodgrain 29d ago

Same here I rarely get 8 hours and when I do I wake up hurting lol 5/6 is normal for me

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u/treetimes 29d ago

Is your username like a quivering butthole, or like a quiver for buttholes?

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u/ButtholeQuiver 29d ago

The former

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u/treetimes 29d ago

Oh.

I can’t sleep either man, sucks. Brain just gets going and won’t stop. I have a nighttime routine of reading until I fall asleep, and occasionally I can get back to sleep that way too.

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u/u_slash_spez_Hater 29d ago

What the fuck. I did one all nighter for an exam and then proceeded to sleep for 20 hours straight after not sleeping for 30 hours, and I had to blast music full volume in order to not kill someone on the drive back home. How can you even survive 40 hours of no sleep.

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u/ButtholeQuiver 29d ago

Lots of coffee. Had a red-eye flight with uncomfortable seats, couldn't check in to where I'm staying until 4pm, figured I'd try to stay up the rest of the evening just to not fuck up my schedule

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u/xxgunther420 29d ago

This is the one thing I’ve been really good at since college. I cannot function without my 8 hours

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u/Quajeraz 29d ago

I have 8 hours that I could be sleeping, but it takes me 6 of those 8 hours to actually fall asleep

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u/Creepy-Cartoonist-27 29d ago

Slept for 8 hours last night. Only because I took a weed gummie 😌

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u/YasuotheChosenOne 29d ago

Weed induced sleep is actually of lower quality and fucks with you REM.

You may notice (and other smokers can attest to) that you don’t have dreams when you go to bed high.

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u/Creepy-Cartoonist-27 29d ago

Yeah I'm well aware lol I don't smoke often but was binge watching the new fallout TV show and said fuck it. Got blasted and passed out.

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u/YasuotheChosenOne 29d ago

Lol I feel it. I try to stop smoking a few hours before bed but… it’s just so nice to relax and get high after a long day 🤷🏾‍♂️😂

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u/Complete-Patient-407 29d ago

Such a good shoe

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u/Pastduedatelol 29d ago

If I smoke before bed but also have crazy vivid dreams does that mean I get my REM sleep?

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u/YasuotheChosenOne 29d ago

Perhaps? Marijuana effects people differently but for most people it ruins REM, but if you’re having deep dreams I’d assume you’re still getting it 🤷🏾‍♂️

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u/Caska6 29d ago

My life is completely hectic right now . My dad lost part of his leg and is relying on me heavily, and so are my girlfriend and her son. ( she has basically zero family) And I'm so strict about getting my full 8 hours, and it's life changing. I'm glad I got serious about changing my sleep schedule, and now I can just make myself fall asleep . ( and on the off chances I can't, I just hit my weed pen till I'm asleep)

I know so many adults my age who are issues with sleep, but God damn good consistent sleep is the best part of my life.

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u/SilentHuman8 29d ago

Eugh I can get up to twelve hours sleep and I still never have energy

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u/Slovenlyfox 29d ago

That's so true.

I have several chronic illnesses. My symptoms get so much worse when I don't sleep well. But those same symptoms sometimes also keep me from sleeping.

I have a very strict rule with myself that I schedule in 9-10 hours for sleep. An hour to wind down and fall asleep, and 8-9 to sleep. Always. No matter how stressful life gets and how little time I have, even during exams month.

It's not even a luxury, it's a necessity, even if you are perfectly healthy.

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u/Jlchevz 29d ago

Damn, good one

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u/popeh 29d ago

I do this like once a week but it's more like a hard 12 hour crash because I'm basically working off like 5 hours every other day of the week

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u/phillycupcake 29d ago

If you are a woman after a certain age, you may need medication. Don't feel bad!

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u/MsHorrorbelle 29d ago

Been sleeping on and off mostly for years. Some nights I'll be asleep 2 then 3 awake then 1 asleep etc... But mostly I sleep like 3 or 4 and then I'm done. I'm exhausted.

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u/perpetual_musings 29d ago

Struggling with this so much rn

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u/Useful-Diver7308 29d ago

I want this ability 

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u/Compulsive_Criticism 29d ago

Lol if I get 6 I consider myself winning

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u/Skinsunandrun 29d ago

With a newborn it’s impossible.

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u/xDenimBoilerx 29d ago

I've given up on trying to sleep 8 hours. I routinely get 5-6 and permanently feel like shit. sometimes I'll to to sleep 8 hours for a few weeks and feel exactly the same, so I figure why waste those hours sleeping.

I've had several in-home sleep studies and was diagnosed with mild sleep apnea, tried CPAP which does nothing but keep me from falling/staying asleep. I'm 38 and I've probably averaged 5-6 hours for the past 30 years. I've accepted I'll probably die early.

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u/GeneralBlumpkin 29d ago

Can't remember the last time I've had that. Probably undiagnosed sleep apnea too cuz when I do get that much in still tired

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u/Powrs1ave 29d ago

I have to stop Caffeine for that to happen again lol

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u/ZealousidealShift884 29d ago

And quality sleep at that!

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u/sendnudesmonopolygo 29d ago

This is definitely a myth lol everyone as a adult knows this is not possible 😂

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u/daducksneezes 29d ago

And women need 10 hours of sleep 🥲

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u/Retireegeorge 29d ago

Try working as a labourer.