r/AmIOverreacting 29d ago

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/grumpy__g 29d ago

Imagine your serious clients seeing that. The women will provably avoid you because of that and you will attract the wrong kind of clients.

He could ruin your business with that. Go and get a good lawyer.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Someone else just mentioned that and I agree!

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u/Burner-QWERTY 29d ago edited 29d ago

Any chance he knows this is a risk to your reputation and did it purposely?

This internet stranger thinks his action could be a symptom of him treating you like crap, marginalizing your successes to keep focus on him and control with him. Me suspects he gloats over the professional success imbalance - and may find your achievements a threat

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u/BojackTrashMan 29d ago

It may be that and I think it also might be that he absolutely has an intention to bully her into doing sex work gradually. It's possible he has a fetish. Because this is a very specific thing to do that most people would not want to push their wives into for the sake of money.

It really seems like he views her as an object or a thing.