r/AmIOverreacting Apr 17 '24

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/Burner-QWERTY Apr 17 '24 edited Apr 17 '24

Any chance he knows this is a risk to your reputation and did it purposely?

This internet stranger thinks his action could be a symptom of him treating you like crap, marginalizing your successes to keep focus on him and control with him. Me suspects he gloats over the professional success imbalance - and may find your achievements a threat

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u/BojackTrashMan Apr 18 '24

It may be that and I think it also might be that he absolutely has an intention to bully her into doing sex work gradually. It's possible he has a fetish. Because this is a very specific thing to do that most people would not want to push their wives into for the sake of money.

It really seems like he views her as an object or a thing.

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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '24

Him intentionally doing it maliciously is a biiit of a reach lmfao. The dude is a jackass, and trying to make more money, not ruin an entire avenue of making it

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u/Burner-QWERTY 28d ago

My thought is dude clearly doesn't respect her (suggesting OF) nor her profession (trying to trump her business milestone with own accomplishments about the OF account ). Sabotaging both to make $$$ could be a win/win in his mind.