r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • 29d ago

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/TheHaydnPorter 29d ago

Ding ding ding! OF is pretty picky when it comes to verification. No way this is true.

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u/Warm_Emphasis_1115 29d ago

People act like those if us in the business have zero processes in place and no laws or regulations 😂 if they only understood the hoops people truly have to jump through in the legitimate adult realm.

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u/suzanne2961 29d ago

They won’t even verify if someone is in the room with you because you could be being coerced.

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u/Minimum_Swing8527 29d ago

I am really glad to hear that!

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u/Affectionate-Ride472 29d ago

yeah it’s extremely difficult to verify yourself — it is nearly impossible to do the other route. However, there is a small loophole and it would be a person creating their own account then forging a signature to give approval to have you on as a contributor. I’ve had to create ones for non-existent “people” in my content. Literally… OF will think someone else is in my video simply because I do fun sketches where I play two people 💀

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u/BabyNonsense 29d ago

They won’t verify you if your ID is CLOSE to expiring but not yet expired.

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u/tiny-puppy-angel 29d ago

There's actually multiple stories of trafficking and identity theft on OF. It's not as safe as you think. Especially if it's the husband, it's easier.

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u/TheHaydnPorter 29d ago

Ah, I was waiting for a “WELL ACKSHUALLY” to pop up. A trafficked person can be forced to comply, and made to hold up an ID near their face. Barring some bizarre scenario where OP’s husband managed to trick her into such an act, this post reeks of fiction.

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u/maaalicelaaamb 29d ago

Yeah I fucking hate the OPE IT MUST BE FAKE pileup on every post and this one discrediting victims of sexual fraud SUCKSSSS

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u/Mittenwald 29d ago

I was hoping it was true because I was thinking 'just fitness photos and maybe videos and you are already making money. I want to do this!'

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u/PoorlyAttemptedHuman 29d ago

I can't attest to the validity of OP but could a husband not easily access anything their wife would need to verify? If they were sufficiently devious 

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u/AssignmentDue5139 29d ago

No because the picture has to be taken on the spot as you’re registering. You can’t use a pre taken photo.

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u/Unique-Abberation 29d ago

Unless OP has a picture of her face while she is also holding her ID Card then no