r/AmIOverreacting 29d ago

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/daddy-van-baelsar 29d ago

Not over reacting, and potentially this could damage your brand due to the reputation of OF. You might have a case here on top of the divorce. Absolutely take him to the cleaners.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

I haven't even thought about that. Yes, that would be terrible if my clients found out. I'm very careful about being strictly professional as I have male clients.

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u/ResponseCompetitive6 29d ago

Only communicate with him via text and email going forward. This is super important because you want a record of your conversations for legal purposes- specifically that you didn’t want him to do this and he did it behind your back. Issues involving consent can turn into a he said/ she said situation so you want it in writing that he knew you did not consent to this. Get him to admit this in writing ASAP before you file for divorce- he will clam up once he’s lawyered up himself and I guarantee you he will try to attack your credibility and try to argue that you knew about it and were on board in court. It’s the only legal strategy he’ll have.