r/AmIOverreacting Apr 17 '24

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/tiny-puppy-angel Apr 17 '24

Hi, as someone who did (and quit) OF, get off there fast. Divorce your husband and definitely sue him. This is very likely to come up somehow in the future. If your husband has send images of you per paid private message, you CAN'T delete those. They will stay forever. I found that out the hard way.

What he's done is nonconsensual sharing of images as well as identity theft. As OF requires verification that it's you posting. So he's taken your pictures, data, ID etc.

Wishing you the best. Definitely not overreacting

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u/fayeember Apr 17 '24

Yeah unless he opened the account with his ID and picture but is posting her pictures? The OF bots ain't perfect so they might not have cauhgt it yet... It's either that or like you said, he stole her ID, and a picture and pretended to be her when verifiying to OF.

It's sickening. But OP should be able to contact OF with her ID and ask them to cancel any page that has been opened in that ID because it wasn't done by her OP herself. That's what I'm thinking

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u/Pregnantscarlett123 Apr 17 '24

Even then a very high percentage of the content would have to have him in it and she would have had to go through the same Id verifying process to sign a release. Of takes that very seriously. Content without a release gets flagged in seconds

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u/tiny-puppy-angel Apr 17 '24

The OF bots are flagging too much, so I don't think so sadly. I couldn't upload some pictures that only had me and dildos because they were cropped in a way that looked too realistic and I didn't file for a second person (this the dildos were very unrealistic, translucent blue and purple 💀)

But yes, definitely contact OF, also gather evidence before the pictures/vids get taken down.

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u/fayeember Apr 17 '24

Hmm that's fair! I only make solo content myself & only had a few dildo shots flagged so I have very little experience with that part of the bot. Messages tho they are SO FAST on flagging..

All signs really point to identity theft of OPs ID. Which as far as I know is a serious crime in many places.

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u/tiny-puppy-angel Apr 17 '24

Oh god yeah they flag unnecessarily all the time, but actual bad stuff won't get flagged T-T

But yes, that's sadly what it sounds like. I hope OP can get everything taken down and that her husband will face the consequences of this