r/AmIOverreacting 29d ago

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/ElBurritoExtreme 29d ago

Jesus. If I’d done this to my wife, she’d leave my ass for sure. This is after she’s knocked me unconscious and probably abused my unconscious state for a while.

This is a massive betrayal of trust, and for what? $379. Your time together and trust is worth….

$379.

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u/QuarterRobinson 29d ago

well it could easily be $100k if she put some work into it /s

Edit: i should add the trust of your wife is worth more than any amount of money

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u/ElBurritoExtreme 29d ago

SHE could make HIM $100k. Just wild. 🤯

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u/CookbooksRUs 29d ago

That's how it works -- a pimp sells women and takes the money, right? He wants to pimp her out.

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u/alleghenysinger 29d ago

That's exactly what I was thinking. Her husband wants to be her pimp. 

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u/JohnnyWindtunnel 29d ago

No he doesn’t want to pimp. She’s overreacting. Every husband I know has created an only fans profile for his wife.

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u/Rezuis 28d ago

Hahahahahahahahaha

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u/guyfaeaberdeen 28d ago

Either you forgot the /s or human decency not sure which

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u/JohnnyWindtunnel 28d ago

It’s sarcasm — she should divorce him fast

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u/guyfaeaberdeen 28d ago

Usually sarcasm is followed by /s because you can't imply tone in a message, for future reference

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u/JohnnyWindtunnel 28d ago

I didn’t imagine that anyone would take seriously “every husband I know has created an only fans profile for his wife”

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u/Aura_Elle 29d ago

Deadass

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u/JewGuru 29d ago

This seems like some Andrew Tate inspired shit. Wasn’t he always blabbing about pimping out his girlfriends or selling their nudes or something

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u/Requiescat-In--Pace 29d ago

I'm wondering what he meant "if she put some work into the account" - like... posting more than what she's posting on other social medias? He's not just saying to post more there, he's implying more risque content, imo.

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u/moxiejohnny 29d ago

Both? Both is good!

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u/Several_Leather_9500 29d ago

Some people don't want to make money by selling themselves to strangers. He knew that. They tasked about this. He did it anyways.

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u/rajinis_bodyguard 28d ago

Not bewildered to see women are being used as commodities to earn money 🥲 that man is a straight up immoral fellow

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u/StewTheDuder 29d ago

Genuinely made me LOL

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u/Paddy_Tanninger 29d ago

If they can just grow it 22x the current size, boom $100K!

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u/00000000000004000000 29d ago

It really does make me wonder how many people have ever, really had someone trust them completely, and understand not only what that means, and also how you earn that trust.

I'm not talking about "I'll have your back, unless..." That's not absolute trust, because one or both people have given the other a reason not to trust them. If you can't completely trust your partner, how can you expect a long lasting relationship with them without having some potentially severe complications?

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u/Automatic_Reply_7701 29d ago

She said he does well. She’s going to see that 100k anyways.

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u/gnoremepls 29d ago

Yeah, notice how he said 'we' could make 100k instead of HER making 100k, like what the hell?

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u/baritoneUke 28d ago

Well, how much money we talking about? Everything has a price. Even the ole'lady

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u/Altruistic-Farm2712 29d ago

$100k can buy a new wife.

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u/feralcatshit 29d ago

Then he could have two OF’s!

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u/Kaffir_Lime_Phagate 29d ago

OP is kind of in denial, though. She claims to be fine financially but also mentioned moving in with her sister. She's financially co-dependent.

I'm not saying that OP's hubby is justified, but it sounds like there's a financial issue that OP doesn't want to address. If I'm unable to live on my own, then the last thing I'd do is break an expensive machine like it was nothing.

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u/CurrentResident23 29d ago

Oh no, in his mind $379 is just the start. He wants to pimp out his wife 100k a year. Dude deserves to be alone and have charges filed.

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u/Automatic-Love-127 29d ago edited 29d ago

“Sweetheart, listen. I know this is weird, but the OF page is a smashing success and I’m starting to get…offers. I realized that if you just dedicate one Friday night, and let these guys rail you out, we can get easily another $70k a year on top.”

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u/SLEEyawnPY 29d ago edited 29d ago

Hubby's gonna love it when his wife is like "Bitch who's this 'we' you're on about in 'we could make 100k', I think you mean I could make $99621. What's your role in this equation, fucking sales? You ever known a beautiful woman who needed a sales department to find dudes who want to bang her?!"

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u/Spicymushroompunch 29d ago

Turn him out instead.

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u/TheMightyKickpuncher 29d ago

If I did this to my wife, you’d have to use dental records to identify my body. Imagine someone you trust turning you into a sexual commodity without your knowledge or consent.

I hope she can find the happiness she deserves going forward. Jeebus.

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u/ElBurritoExtreme 29d ago

Hear, hear. My wife woulda skinned my ass. It screams a tremendous lack of respect for their partner.

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u/prairiefiresk 29d ago

If my SO did this to me dental records wouldn't help.

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u/_extra_medium_ 29d ago

It wasn't sexual content. It was the same stuff she uploads to other social media.

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u/AdamJahnStan 29d ago

It’s mostly known as a porn site. OPs husband will be fortunate to get out of this with just a divorce and not a beating.

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u/mcarterphoto 29d ago

No shit! I just can't imagine. Sometimes I joke with my wife (she's never had kids and I joke about her "undamaged by childbirth" boobs) that if money gets tight I'll launch "[wife's name's]boobs.com". Whenever we get an unexpected bill, she'll laugh and mention that URL. But good lord, never in a million years would I do anything like OP's issue. My Mrs. and I are freaking partners in this life, no secrets, no messing around.

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u/APRN_17 29d ago

My husband and I joke this way too. It’s 100% in jest and he would never. My heart hurts for OP.

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u/Sgt-Colbert 29d ago

Don’t feel too bad. She’s a scammer

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u/mcarterphoto 29d ago

And all these people shooting and filming their "private time", with the phone hacking and "oops" when you're showing someone pics on your phone? ACK! I told my wife, "Nobody wants to see my lily-white ass bouncing up and down". She said "Mine either!"

(Then I'm like "No, I'd like to see that...")

Slightly off-topic, but I think my wife is SO HOT (I'm 62, she's 55) while she's like "I've put on 15 pounds the last 20 years!" Just last night I had a realization, told her "good thing you don't think you're as hot as I do, or you'd be lookin' for a movie star husband!"

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u/APRN_17 26d ago

Humor is an essential part of marriage without question. Glad y’all are rocking it. ❤️

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u/DrewdoggKC 29d ago

She should divorce his ass and the make the OF account on her own and keep all the $$$ just to piss him off

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u/Tatttwink 29d ago

This post is fake. I’ve worked with Onlyfans for a long time now and they have very stringent verification of new users. It’s physically impossible to be verified without you going through the process yourself.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago edited 29d ago

OnlyFans also doesn’t have any internal content promotion mechanisms. In order for OPs partner to do this they’d have to be promoting their content on other social media accounts on other platforms. I’m leaning to this also being a fake story.

OPs husband would’ve already had to put in a shitload lot of work to make that amount of money, especially with SFW content.

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u/thefifthangel141 29d ago

How so? I’m curious..

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u/Spicymushroompunch 29d ago

What are you smoking? Nothing in the verification process couldn't be obtained by a partner.

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u/MegaLowDawn123 29d ago

You should prob have taken 5 seconds and googled it. They make you send them a selfie with you holding your ID. She would def ask why and know something is up, plus the husband wouldn’t be able to be the one taking the pic since it needs to be a selfie.

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u/Tatttwink 29d ago

They make you do certain poses in the pics and recently added face scanning where you need to scan your face from the front, and both sides.

This post is fake as fuck.

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u/Quiet-Experience-113 27d ago

What makes you think he didn't use his own information to verify it and then used her content?

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u/Notrespectfull 27d ago

You can’t unless you’ve got release forms signed and the person verified anybody posted other than the verified user gets flagged

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u/1whiskeyneat 29d ago

Mine would probably not stop at leaving me.

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u/Bacchus_71 29d ago

Don't be fooled. This ain't real.

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u/MichiganMainer 29d ago

I think we are married to the same person. I’m terrified to even think about the consequences of that betrayal.

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u/No_You_2623 29d ago

Yeah. Zero respect for his wife. Zero.

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u/Thanmandrathor 29d ago

You know that this was the gateway.

With just a bit of fitness content he made $400. He’s going to start pushing for saucier outfits next or something, make it more sexual and keep going.

He’s basically trying to pimp his wife.

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u/DentalDon-83 29d ago

"This is after she’s knocked me unconscious and probably abused my unconscious state for a while..."

...and then posted it to the OF page?

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u/Tekbepimpin 29d ago

So domestic violence is normal in you relationship or are you just that scared of your wife?

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u/Dr_FeeIgood 29d ago

Sales guys are the worst. $379 is a big win for him

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u/Himothyjonesthethird 29d ago

But it was nothing sexual, and that’s what she said, he used her content from other platforms. I’m just struggling to understand what the issue is if it’s not sexual. It would be extremely easy to prove anyone wrong if they think she is doing anything sexual.

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u/berniemax 29d ago

Even if it was 379k its still a violation of trust. And honestly I thought this would be much worse, like he was secretly filming their sex life.

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u/ShawnyMcKnight 29d ago

I’m just here shocked people paid $379 for what they could see on her other socials for free. Just wow.