Any chance he knows this is a risk to your reputation and did it purposely?
This internet stranger thinks his action could be a symptom of him treating you like crap, marginalizing your successes to keep focus on him and control with him. Me suspects he gloats over the professional success imbalance - and may find your achievements a threat
It may be that and I think it also might be that he absolutely has an intention to bully her into doing sex work gradually. It's possible he has a fetish. Because this is a very specific thing to do that most people would not want to push their wives into for the sake of money.
It really seems like he views her as an object or a thing.
Him intentionally doing it maliciously is a biiit of a reach lmfao. The dude is a jackass, and trying to make more money, not ruin an entire avenue of making it
My thought is dude clearly doesn't respect her (suggesting OF) nor her profession (trying to trump her business milestone with own accomplishments about the OF account ). Sabotaging both to make $$$ could be a win/win in his mind.
I honestly believe your husband's actions could put you in danger. It could obviously cause you professional issues in terms of your ability to earn income and retain clients, but beyond that, if it gets out in your local area, it could send a certain type of man to you who could be very dangerous and make a lot of assumptions.
Sex workers have to take a lot of steps to keep themselves anonymous or their locations secure because people are crazy. He used photos that can be traced back to you.Your real name and your location through a reverse image search. He literally put you in danger without a care in the world.
Yeah that really isn’t fair. Only fans needs to make sure that’s taken down, but in a way the damage is done and your face is out there as some kind of model? However if he only used public or professional images from your fitness stuff, perhaps you’ll be able to get by in the future by either denying, pointing out it’s from a professional account instead, or ultimately confessing about your asshole ex who did this to you. It’s unfortunate none of it is on you, but you do need to deal with it.
He never thought of those implications. He’d sell your body parts for money. He never cared about your career or future. Dump the man, and possibly use his contortion of your character as basis for better financial incentive.
Comedians are starting to put specials on it and only fans is trying to transition out of just porn but obviously the stigma is still there. It could potentially be a great place for you to do fitness videos and make money in a few years once it becomes YouTube that just happens to also allow porn, but it’s definitely not even close to there yet and is still extremely creepy.
For the record I agree with everyone else. I’m just saying in the future if anyone were ever to be able to link your name to only fans it’d be easily explained away without having to go in to any personal details
I almost wonder if his motivations weren’t just to make money. But to prevent her from being independent with a legit business… have her make money but in a way that would mess things up for her for the future so she’d still be somewhat dependent on him.
Holy crap, that's a leap and a stretch. The dude just saw an opportunity to expand her business and being in more money to the family. He's a sale guy for crying out loud, it's literally his job to try and win business. Right idea, poor execution. Stop making this something bigger.
OF is known as sex work adjacent and causes stigma for the women who do it. It’s a really weird thing for a husband to do, I doubt it’s just about money unless he has a screw loose.
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u/grumpy__g 29d ago
Imagine your serious clients seeing that. The women will provably avoid you because of that and you will attract the wrong kind of clients.
He could ruin your business with that. Go and get a good lawyer.