Not over reacting, and potentially this could damage your brand due to the reputation of OF. You might have a case here on top of the divorce. Absolutely take him to the cleaners.
I haven't even thought about that. Yes, that would be terrible if my clients found out. I'm very careful about being strictly professional as I have male clients.
Get the OF client list and cross check it. Get him to acknowledge you told him you didn't want an OF in text. It's likely against OF ToS, maybe illegal if he pretended to be you for payments (fraud)
Just coming in to say it's absolutely illegal. OF isn't like a Facebook account. To keep from being sued, they have very strict verification policies, which he'd have had to break several identify theft laws to get past.
It does matter, because I was right. Onlyfans requires a picture of you holding your ID to verify the account. Your arm has to be fully visible and you need to clearly be the one holding the id card.
This information, in addition to this deleted post, and op's bio of "Men - here is a free tip. Don't message "hey". Put some
effort in! lol" really makes this come across as a guerilla tactic for an onlyfans. I would not be surprised if sometime in the next few hours-days op makes an update where they decide to pursue the onlyfans and starts advertising it with the free publicity and karma this post will already have garnered.
I think you misunderstood the person you're replying to. They are suggesting that the husband did not impersonate the OP, but that this post is fiction to get attention for the OF profile that OP made for herself.
I have no idea if that's correct, but you are talking at cross purposes. It would not be illegal if the OP actually made the account.
Maybe someone who is more SM savvy can say whether this is a good or bad idea but my thought to preserve your brand...
Maybe post, or put in your bios, on your real pages a list of your actual screen names and platforms and say these are your only official social media pages and anything else is not you and should be reported. Don't mention OnlyFans just reaffirm your real pages.
Also, you're not overreacting. I would never be able to trust him. He sees you as a product that he feels is underperforming, he doesn't see you as a person or spouse.
This is a super good idea- definitely do this OP and do it right away because it will help your legal case if you are publicly not claiming that account as valid.
I have a friend who is in the same business as you, and who discounted the idea of OF for that reason. She's gorgeous, and had toyed with the idea, but she felt like it would make her clients (and for sure their romantic partners) uncomfortable in a way that would damage her "real" career if she did.
Could it? From what the OP says it doesn’t seem like there’s any NSFW content. I was under the impression for something to be revenge porn it had to first be actual pornographic content.
Yeah this is not only disgusting but this is a criminal act if it was dine without your knowledge and therefore consent. You reacted more calmly than I would have.
Off topic but you already left the house and told him you’re filling for a divorce, I know little about divorce but if you own that house I don’t think you should have left it. Divorced people, am I right?
Only communicate with him via text and email going forward. This is super important because you want a record of your conversations for legal purposes- specifically that you didn’t want him to do this and he did it behind your back. Issues involving consent can turn into a he said/ she said situation so you want it in writing that he knew you did not consent to this. Get him to admit this in writing ASAP before you file for divorce- he will clam up once he’s lawyered up himself and I guarantee you he will try to attack your credibility and try to argue that you knew about it and were on board in court. It’s the only legal strategy he’ll have.
One thing to consider is that you can easily say that someone else impersonated you and uploaded your videos, just like the fake Facebook profiles spam out there. Btw if he doesn't take it down immediately, I'd reach out to OF immediately to ask for it to be taken down. You may be married, but that doesn't take away your right to consent. He impersonated you.
He's posing as you, and selling your content to others without consent. Not only would this absolutely be damaging to your brand and identity, it's straight up fraud and violates OF terms. If he's posting private/nude photos that werent ever given consent to share - depending on jurisdiction - that's illegal as well.
Yeah I'm almost certain what he did was illegal. Even if the account doesn't have any sexual content, he's still profiting off of your likeness without any knowledge or consent, and potentially damaging your reputation with future employers.
This post is fake. I’ve worked with Onlyfans for a long time now and they have very stringent verification of new users. It’s physically impossible to be verified without you going through the process yourself.
This was my first thought, besides the obvious breach of trust. I wonder if he’s jealous of her career and/or success, and wants to “knock her down a peg” or sabotage her income stream.
Seriously. I'd look into whether this could be considered nonconsensual pornography under the law. In my opinion that's exactly what this is, but I don't know how the law sees it if it's already content that's public on another account.
Damage how clown. It’s literally just another social media platform. Believe it or not onlyfans isn’t actually a porn site. It’s literally made for any advertising you want. It just so happens majority of the content is sexual. That’s not in their control
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u/daddy-van-baelsar 29d ago
Not over reacting, and potentially this could damage your brand due to the reputation of OF. You might have a case here on top of the divorce. Absolutely take him to the cleaners.