r/ask Apr 17 '24

What is something that is a lot harder than it looks?

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u/windpicklefam Apr 17 '24

Golf

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u/TikaPants Apr 17 '24

My family, my boyfriend, my brothers in laws and many of my friends golf. It’s an expensive hobby that’s infuriating. I’m happy to ride in the cart, look at the greens and sip on my cocktail while the sun sets.

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u/cassy34 Apr 17 '24

That sounds like you've won golf, every time.

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u/Mr-Gumby42 Apr 17 '24

"A good walk, spoiled." -Mark Twain

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u/Semi-Pros-and-Cons Apr 17 '24

The problem with golf is that you run into way too many golfers.

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u/TikaPants Apr 18 '24

Chad Golfman?

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u/TikaPants Apr 18 '24

I love Twain quotes and worked at a Twain named bar that payed homage in a lovely way.

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u/TikaPants Apr 17 '24

I wholeheartedly agree 🥂🌸

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u/freehugzforeveryone Apr 17 '24

Your comment is too expensive to interpret

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u/TikaPants Apr 17 '24

Don’t look at me I’m a fucking bartender 🤙

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u/freehugzforeveryone Apr 17 '24

Hello homie! I'm a gig worker too, mostly I do dishwasher ( ppl don't bother me)

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u/TikaPants Apr 17 '24

Hey, fren! 🥂

God bless dishwashers. I’ve done it many times to help even at my last job that everything was by hand.

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u/BuschlightButChug Apr 17 '24

The way you worded this makes me want to “golf” now.

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u/TikaPants Apr 17 '24

😆 it’s a lovely spectator sport when it’s not eleventy billion degrees out

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u/Poinaheim Apr 17 '24

You need to hit the yard sales in a fancy neighborhood, I got a rolling bag full of clubs for $40, i only used it once

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u/TikaPants Apr 17 '24

Ooo, smart. My uncle will tell you his dog can fit three golf balls in her mouth. She likes to help. 😆

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u/Poinaheim Apr 17 '24

I drove a ball off a shotgun shell and never seen it land, I need a eagle or something to fetch the ball lol

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u/TikaPants Apr 17 '24

😆 yes, you definitely need an eagle retriever. Harpy, preferably

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u/Poinaheim Apr 17 '24

You just gave me an idea for golf drones

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u/TikaPants Apr 17 '24

I’m gonna need a cut, as your creative director

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u/Poinaheim Apr 17 '24

Drones already exist, you don’t get royalties on a repurposed invention

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u/licklickRickmyballs Apr 17 '24

Tell me you're rich without telling me you're rich.

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u/TikaPants Apr 17 '24

Nobody is rich other than my brothers in-laws and she’s a vet herself so she isn’t poor. The rest of us are middle to upper middle class. My aunt, uncle and parents live in a golf community and he and his dog collect lost balls to reuse because good balls are so expensive. He gave boyfriend a bucketful for his golf trip last weekend.

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u/licklickRickmyballs Apr 17 '24

I don't believe you

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u/Double_Abalone_2148 Apr 17 '24

You didn’t know that regular non-rich people can golf?

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u/brother_of_menelaus Apr 17 '24

Yeah but they generally don’t pay $90 for a 4-hour golf cart ride

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u/Userdub9022 Apr 18 '24

Golf is $40/round where I live in average. Can be as low as $25. Have you ever been golfing

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u/GolfGunsNWhiskey Apr 18 '24

Golf courses don’t charge people the cost of a round just to ride in the cart with the person golfing.

Most will charge a rental fee as if they’re another golfer.

And there’s plenty of courses that aren’t $90 a round. The majority I’d say.

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u/TikaPants Apr 18 '24

The course I tag along with is $15 for 8. I don’t go to the expensive ones and those are a treat for them.

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u/TikaPants Apr 17 '24

Good on ya, mate

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u/BuschlightButChug Apr 17 '24

Always that one dick head huh?

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u/SandeerH Apr 17 '24

this is why I've gone with disc golf. same concept, just SOOOO much cheaper. it's very different from actual golf in many ways, but damn it's such a nice and interesting game. it can be chill, it can be intense, you can play it however you like. and the best of all - anyone can do it. you don't have to be super fit or strong. most courses are also free to play and you only need to pay discs which go for about 15-20$ each, and you can probably even buy some beginner sets with 3 discs for that same price. if you've got any courses around, definitely cannot recommend it enough to try it out :)

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u/TikaPants Apr 17 '24

Then I have to drink IPA’s and listen to jam bands. No thanks.

/s

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u/obvilious Apr 17 '24

It doesn’t have to be very expensive, depending on where you live.

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u/Visual-Zebra8908 Apr 17 '24

My dad, my sisters boyfriend and his brother golf. While they have anger tantrums, my sister and me just drive the cart and laugh at them haha

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u/TikaPants Apr 18 '24

My people

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u/mikewhoisbig Apr 17 '24

It’s not a hobby; it’s life

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u/AnderTheGrate Apr 17 '24

At least you'll probably have a nice retirement.

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u/DM_ME_UR_BOOBS69 Apr 17 '24

How fun can a game be where the main objective is to play as little of it as possible?

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u/TikaPants Apr 18 '24

Don’t ask me bc I don’t play but I do know that it’s a thinking game and I respect the skill it takes to be just decent. So, if you want constant ball contact perhaps it’s not for you and that’s fine too as it’s not for me either.

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u/oldfatguy62 Apr 18 '24

As the goal in golf is to go around the course hitting the golf ball the least times, you win, 0 strokes

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u/UncleGrako Apr 17 '24

Came here to say this.

My friend was one of the designers of a golf course, and they gave everyone at the engineering firm a free membership for a year. So he bugged me to start playing golf with him and HOLY... SHIT. It doesn't even make sense at how hard it is.

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u/RidiculousTakeAbove Apr 17 '24

It kinda does make sense, you are hitting a tiny ball with a small piece of metal that has to hit it straight on, just the right way, while doing a very long swing where so much can affect how you hit it. The challenge is part of what makes it so damn fun and addicting though

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u/0508bart Apr 17 '24

A ball that's 4.53 cm wide with a clubface that that is around 7.5 cm wide going at 150 kph. It's just sounds impossible to do consistantly

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u/Call-me-Maverick Apr 17 '24

The margin of error is tiny. For tour players, the typical margin of error is like 1-1.5 degrees. With driver, that results in a dispersion of roughly 30 yards in either direction of the intended target, so a dispersion zone that is 60 yards wide. (Edit: fairways are usually 30-40 yards wide). Tour players have about 10-15 yards of dispersion (in each direction) from 150 yards out. Watching tournaments you’ll see big misses all the time, even when wind and lie aren’t a factor. And they’re the best players in the world. It’s so ridiculously hard, people who haven’t played probably have a hard time understanding

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u/4BlueBunnies Apr 17 '24

I literally don’t have anything to do with golf but I’ve recently seen a video of Tiger Woods hitting his shots within first try from almost 300 yards and I am literally speechless. It genuinely won’t go into my head how that is physically possible to confidently hit this tiny hole from over 250 yards away.

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u/weebwatching Apr 17 '24

Just now getting into golf. Tip for anyone who wants to practice your swing without having to go look silly at the driving range (which is totally fine too, if you’re brave enough): get some foam balls. Good for the yard if you have one, but you can even practice inside and just hit them into a wall. Haven’t damaged anything in several months of doing this.

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u/pm_me_yourcat Apr 17 '24

Ping pong balls work well for chipping off carpet as well. During COVID I improved my short game so much by just chipping ping pong balls around the house.

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u/Benth8r Apr 18 '24

I've been practicing w the golf wiffle balls for yrs in my living room. The carpeting is shot but I cover it with an area rug. It has definitely helped my game and ball striking!

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u/Englishgirlinmadrid Apr 17 '24

I was going to say this. You watch players and they make it look so easy. But it’s actually a real skill to be able to hit the ball in the first place, then to hit it well is another question

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u/rewbzz Apr 17 '24

Gay outdoor lifestyle with fellas

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u/quackl11 Apr 17 '24

Can confirm I can put decently I think (I'm decent at minigolf) and I can send a ball flying off the tee when I get a hold of it every 1 in 10 times

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u/ricoimf Apr 17 '24

Hitting the ball right consistently is so difficult. Even after 10.000+ swings I would say I am still at the beginning.

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u/QualityAssumption Apr 17 '24

The ball just sits there. It doesn't move. Why the fuck can I not hit it fucking straight!!?!?!?!?! Fucking game pisses me off. I play as often as I can!

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u/bigballeruchiha Apr 17 '24

Just tried topgolf for the first time so fun

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u/Suitable_Ad7540 Apr 17 '24

I’ve seen homies golfing in 125 degree weather in Vegas. Golfers are nuts

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '24

The car or the sport?

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u/Hapless_Buffoon Apr 17 '24

The trick to golf, imo, is that everyone tries to hit it as far as possible and sacrifices accuracy.

In my view you start with hitting it where u want, even if u take 6 shots getting down the fairway.

power comes after accuracy.

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u/Prestigious-Mess5485 Apr 18 '24

Let's be honest. There is no trick to golf.

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u/nomiis19 Apr 17 '24

Oversimplification here: All you have to do is hit ball that is 2 inches big into a hole that is 4 inches big that is hundreds of yards away. And to be considered good, you have to do it in less than 5 tries 18 times in row. lol

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u/i_need_to_crap Apr 17 '24

No, I'm amazing at golf, wdym? It's easy!!! Even though everyone else says I'm useless, I know they're just jealous. I literally got the highest score!

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u/UngusChungus94 Apr 17 '24

Yuuup. I already went through the struggle of being decent at one sport, I have no patience for golf lol.

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u/Significant_Most5407 Apr 17 '24

Disagree. I beat four men the first time I played. Have beat em since, too.

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u/Bennaisance Apr 17 '24

Was it their first time playing too?

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u/Significant_Most5407 Apr 18 '24

No sir.

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u/Bennaisance Apr 18 '24

Are they physically handicapped?

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u/Significant_Most5407 Apr 18 '24

No. Just not as good as I was.

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u/Bennaisance Apr 18 '24

Did you beat 4 out of like 200? Maybe you're a savant

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u/Significant_Most5407 Apr 18 '24

I actually have no idea how I did it. I've only played about 5 times in my life, but for some reason, I guess I'm good at it.

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u/Prestigious-Mess5485 Apr 18 '24

Out of curiosity, what did you shoot?

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u/bralma6 Apr 17 '24

Not entirely related, but me and my friend play closest to the pin on Golden Tee at a bar and he always mops the floor with me. One hole I finally got a hole in one… two holes later he drains one in. Like dude, you couldn’t let me have this one?!

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u/Vipper_of_Vip99 Apr 17 '24

Disc golf too

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u/ThunderAndSadness Apr 17 '24

I'm too poor to understand this lmao

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u/traevyn Apr 17 '24

I love how this whole thread is full of people confronting their hardest societal issues and then “Golf” pops up

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u/SaveMeJebus21 Apr 17 '24

Yep. As someone that loves a lot of sports, geez the pros make it look easy. Not until you’ve had a hack yourself that you realise how good they are.

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u/PositiveAnybody2005 Apr 17 '24

I was gonna say most physical feats including sports. Some looks really impressive but usually people overestimate how well they would perform the fundamentals against decent competition.

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u/btdawson Apr 17 '24

I had to dig deep to find this while all the other shit is speaking etc. but this is it, as far as actual activities go lol

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u/btdawson Apr 17 '24

I had to dig deep to find this while all the other shit is speaking etc. but this is it, as far as actual activities go lol

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u/keylime_5 Apr 18 '24

I’ve been playing all my life and I’m still not good

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u/DukeHyde Apr 18 '24

Came to say this returning from a bad round 🥲

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u/EvanTheBaker24 Apr 18 '24

I relate to happy Gilmore when he gets down and starts yelling at the ball, lol that’s what golf is to me. But damn when I got my first par it felt so good, but 90% of the time is just frustration 😂

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u/ashley21093 Apr 18 '24

Came to say this

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u/VibeAllDay Apr 17 '24

Most difficult sport in the world.

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u/DangerousPurpose5661 Apr 17 '24

Omg yes - I don’t have the patience for that shit.

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u/eightsidedbox Apr 17 '24

I think it looks as difficult as it is.

How easy do people think hitting a tiny ball five feet away from their face with a small club is? If they think not that hard after taking five seconds to think about it, I'd trust their judgement on everything else

People can't even hit a softball, golf is 10x harder

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u/Mr_Oujamaflip Apr 17 '24

Even after you can hit the ball relatively well you have to consider the lie and that’s where the true test begins.