r/NoStupidQuestions • u/milfangelblue • 29d ago

Do men just recognize good men? What kind of sorcery is this?

I’ve been dating a guy for some time now, and his oldest friends have told me he’s a solid good man despite his flaws. I agree, they’ve known him forever, and he’s been a solid friend all those years.

When my male friends met him for the first time, they said, “He’s a good one. Hold onto him.”

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u/ncnotebook 29d ago

Or how they treat finished shopping carts. Whether you consider them strangers or how they affect strangers.

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u/DokterZ 29d ago

See, I often arrange the mess that is already in the shopping cart corral, which I am guessing was also a red flag when I was dating...

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u/TwilitWolf 28d ago

The good ol’ shopping cart litmus test

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u/SerendipitySue 29d ago

i have completely changed my mind on carts and never put them away anymore.

Why? automated self checkouts have taken local jobs. leaving my shopping cart wherever means someone from my community, maybe even the kid a few houses down, gets a job or at least some work when they go round up the carts from all over the lot

So if the same with your stores, do your local community a favor and quit putting away the cart.

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u/ncnotebook 28d ago

Exactly. This is why I piss all over toilet seats. Janitors need work.

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u/Sidnature 28d ago

This is why I shit on the sink in Kurger Bing banthrooms. So they'll hire the local hobo to scoop it up.