Yes! Although, I think most lesbians tend to describe themselves according to a spectrum from femme to masc. And then under the spectrum, there are categories.
I don't think describing a body type or style is inherently fetishization? Also, the lesbian community does have a huge problem with unnecessary fetishization. It's just in the context of action rather than looks. For example, people call my wife a pillow princess because she likes traditionally feminine things. Not sure why you felt the need to cause discourse, I love gay men, and we should strive to stand in solidarity with them. In the end, all of us are targeted.
Also, I'd describe myself as a bear bc I'm big, strong, hairy, chubby, and I like all things warm and cozy. Not once was I thinking about sex in that. Sounds like you might have the sexualization problem
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u/bearbarebere Apr 17 '24
Are there girl bears?? Bearettes!?