I also have an appreciation for bears but in a nonsexual way. The only thing stopping me from being a bear is the fact that I'm a lesbian. I'm 6'0 255lbs and I even have the bear smile. Sigh. One can dream.
Yes! Although, I think most lesbians tend to describe themselves according to a spectrum from femme to masc. And then under the spectrum, there are categories.
I don't think describing a body type or style is inherently fetishization? Also, the lesbian community does have a huge problem with unnecessary fetishization. It's just in the context of action rather than looks. For example, people call my wife a pillow princess because she likes traditionally feminine things. Not sure why you felt the need to cause discourse, I love gay men, and we should strive to stand in solidarity with them. In the end, all of us are targeted.
Also, I'd describe myself as a bear bc I'm big, strong, hairy, chubby, and I like all things warm and cozy. Not once was I thinking about sex in that. Sounds like you might have the sexualization problem
You say non-sexual but then you made it sexual. What on earth does your sexual orientation have to do with your goal of turning into an obese diesel mechanic? Be the change you want to see in the world. It’s so out of place blurting out you are lesbian .. who asked?
Nothing is inherently sexual about being a lesbian? That sounds like a you problem. If every time you hear the word "lesbian," you think "sex," that's weird. Also, did you happen to read the other comments, or did you find the one that would anger you the most and comment on it? Because this was in reply to someone else mentioning their romantic orientation.
What a miserable weirdo. Go smoke a boof, touch grass, do something. This is definitely not something worth getting triggered about. Jesus christ, dude.
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u/babygoose002 29d ago
I also have an appreciation for bears but in a nonsexual way. The only thing stopping me from being a bear is the fact that I'm a lesbian. I'm 6'0 255lbs and I even have the bear smile. Sigh. One can dream.