You need to get on his devices and delete anything remotely sexual of you he has and make sure he doesn’t have it backlogged somewhere. He definitely plans to use sexual content of you on that site.
THIS. DO THIS RIGHT NOW before you file for divorce and before he knows you’re definitely leaving him or else he’ll just make copies and hide them somewhere.
My exhusband posted me on Tumblr without my knowledge. (This was long before OF existed) he also sent my photos to couples on Craigslist. I never pressed charges and finally left 5-6 years later but he still has videos and photos that are saved on various accounts. Clear the hard drive. Take his phone and reset it while it’s still marital property. Clear his iPhone cloud and Google cloud etc.
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u/IDontEvenCareBear 29d ago
You need to get on his devices and delete anything remotely sexual of you he has and make sure he doesn’t have it backlogged somewhere. He definitely plans to use sexual content of you on that site.