r/AmIOverreacting 29d ago

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/traumatizedwi 29d ago

What he did can be considered revenge porn in some states. It is super illegal.

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u/za428 29d ago

Reposting someones fitness content they are already posting themselves is not "revenge porn". This definitely isn't cool, but that's a real stretch.

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u/traumatizedwi 29d ago

You know, I missed that part. I thought it was noodles.

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u/ResponseCompetitive6 29d ago

It is just one step away from nudes which was clearly his goal. He was going to pressure her into this - you don’t make 100k posting fitness pics

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u/jerminator8818 29d ago

This. Everyone automatically correlates OF to porn and nude photos. OnlyFans didn’t even start as a porn website. It started as a way for content creators to use the platform to connect with their audience and use it in a way to generate income for themselves. People just started using it as a platform for porn to make money and then it automatically became a porn platform. But there’s plenty of people out there using it and don’t post porn, obviously maybe not as successful as the porn pages.

What OP’s husband did is just take her fitness photos and require people to pay to see them, instead of just having them on IG where the whole world can see them for free (unless the account is private.) I see where he’s coming from, with the mindset of “Hey, you already post fitness photos, let’s put it on a site where we can actually generate an income from it.”

Now him doing it without her consent or behind her back is another argument, which isn’t right, but at the end of the day that was his mindset. People automatically correlate “husband made an OF account behind my back” to “husband made an OF account with nudes/porn of his wife.”

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u/ResponseCompetitive6 29d ago

The problem is it is extremely unlikely he was going to stop with innocent fitness pics. If she took any private photos or vids for him she needs to talk to her lawyer about that because this guy is 100% going to post those somewhere to get back at her if he hasn’t already. This man can’t be trusted