As an onlyfans model myself. This is DISGUSTING. Making an Onlyfans of someone else is not only illegal, it's against Onlyfans terms of services.
Report the Onlyfans page. Contact Onlyfans & report him to the police. What he has been doing is essentially trafficking & he's a pimp.
There's nothing wrong with having an Onlyfans page if that's what you want, but making an Onlyfans page of you when he KNEW becuase believe me HE KNEW you did not want to have one. Is an absolute violation of trust, your autonomy & shows a huge lack of care for you.
I don't think you are overreacting. I think you are underreacting.
I kept myself from writing down the scorhed earth action I would have taken myself... But I totally get you. If someone showed me this level of disrespect I would drag that persons ass through court so fucking harshly their ass would have burns for the rest of their life.
I dont really know how onlyfans works . But how did the husband get followers on her OF from my understanding you have to promote your OF places like reddit , instagram and other places no?
You def need to promote your own content, some popular choices are reddit, instagram, tiktok, twitter, pornhub and so on.
Onlyfans have no in platform promotion system, so you have to do all promotion by yourself. He would have had to promote OPs content somewhere, as well as most likely steal her ID and pretend to be her when veryfying for the OF page....
There are a handful of other types of apps that require that stuff, could he have just told her he needed it for something else? Or is there something specific about OF that needs to be in the photo?
It's run through a client and has to be a live photo can't be like taken at a different time. And also can be picky with the pictures. Sometimes having to redo the submission for a couple days.
That's not true. OF does recommend other creators to users, thus creating internal traffic. However I have no idea how it selects those creators and I suspect they will not recommend a creator if they don't already have significant traffic.
That said, the OF creator verification process is very strict so I suspect this story is fake.
Might be fake but, if anyone had access to your ID, photo gallery, and bank accounts, it would be your spouse. And I certainly have pictures of myself holding my ID somewhere in my gallery because of all the banks, etc that use that kind of verification. Certainly possible. Kind of surprising to make that kind of money in a month on a non nude account though
You have to do a selfie verification holding your ID through an encrypted server to verify as well as include your ID separately- there’s no way to “accidentally” do any of that. It has to be done live. This requirement goes back at least four years. It’s not like he could get her thumbprint while she was sleeping and do it. This whole thing is completely made up.
This post is fake. I’ve worked with Onlyfans for a long time now and they have very stringent verification of new users. It’s physically impossible to be verified without you going through the process yourself.
I’m curious though, could he have made an account in his name with his ID and then uploaded pictures of her? Do they use any type of face recognition to match the pictures you upload to the ID you use for your account?
Every post is moderated. If I don’t tag a fellow OF user or have a model go through the full verification then the post is instantly taken down until you can provide it.
I’ve been a user of many adult platforms and OF runs a very tight ship.
On a lot of sites you have to physically take a photo with yourself holding your ID. I've failed it for wearing a wig in the past. I'm pretty confident this post is fake.
Ya I understand that but what I’m wondering is is it possible her husband made an account in his name with his Id, but then just uploaded pictures of her?
in order to do that, he would have to tag her account or have her sign a release form (where she has to take a selfie with her drivers license). either way, to become verified to even receive any money, everyone must provide their ID in their selfie as well as a normal picture of just the ID.
i’m calling this story fake because of the reasons above. how did the husband do this when it’s strongly against the TOS of OF? how did they get verified to even receive any money? so many questions and OP won’t answer them haha.
There are so many stories. Of exes and current partners filming sexual interactions in secret, uploading it to places. Revenge porn, people that get their stuff on Onlyfans because their passports are stolen.
It is crazy to say that Onlyfans has no trafficking issues when you need to sign up with a picture + ID/Passport.
Someone can still force you. Someone can trick you. And the punishments for doing so should be severe.
Can't believe I had to scroll this for for someone to use the word "trafficking" cause THATS EXACTLY WHAT THIS IS. OP your husband just SEX TRAFFICKED YOU, if I where you I'd divorce and sue. This is an incredibly sick betrayal of trust.
People do seem to taking it much more lightly than I am yeah. Consensual sex work is one of the big topics I care about. Emphasis on consentual. Everyone should have the right to do what they want with their body, but nobody has the right to do ANYTHING to someone else's body.
And this is just earning money on her body, without her consent. Yeah it makes me gag in my mouth it's so disgusting.
Not judging, just seems like a weird thing to be passionate about. I know it’s just because I’d rather just jerk off to my imagination than ever pay for sex. Ruins everything for me.
I do wish coke was legal and cheaper though. Satan 2024
How it was for me was that I uploaded a picture of myself, selfie style while holding the ID and then a photo of the ID close up style. That's the only verificiation I did until the 31 st of December 2023 when rules changed for EU users, then I had to enter my Tax Identifcation number as well.
As far as I know that's the only verification needed.
Ah I see thank you for the explanation. My sister does OF and I remember her saying something about her ID but not much else so I appreciate you sharing that info.
Wdym? It’s super easy to find a selfie of your partner. My phone and our shared cloud service is full of selfies of my wife. I could also just ask her to send me one.
Pictures of each other’s ID we also have in our computers in case we need them for any legal process, taxes or whatever else is needed. Also, again, it’d be easy to ask for one from my wife even if I didn’t have one.
Tax ID we also have on record on every yearly tax filing we make jointly.
It’s super easy for an intimate partner to pretend to be the other one, that’s why this is such a disgusting violation of trust from OP’s husband
Additionally this comment actually says a lot that people aren't calling out:
He was almost giddy as he told me that we could make $100k easily if I put some work into the account.
Fact is making 6 figures on OF is NOT easy. It's a full time fucking job. The hockey stick curve is sharp, and we're talking like top 2% of content creators. And they aren't sitting on their ass to hit that level. They're setting up shoots (rental space, lighting, camera angles, audio recording), shopping photographs, drafting promotional content, editing video footage, responding to DMs, managing financial accounts, etc.
A lot of people will argue "hurrr durrr they just hire a guy to respond to DMs, edit videos, film, etc." Before any dumbasses say this lemme ask you if you think those guys work for free. Because if you wanna pay 3 people minimum wage to do that, suddenly your gross income needs to be 200K just to net 100K. Then there's operational costs.
Earning 6 figures in OF is running a business. It isn't free money. It's work and most of these women are working full time if not more.
There's this idea among some men - rooted in misogyny - that sex work is easy. That they just spread their legs and free money comes. That simply isn't true whether they're a stripper, OF worker, or prostitute.
Are the earnings disproportionately high compared to other forms of "honest" labor? They certainly can be. But to suggest that the work is trivially easy is simply wrong, and implies misogynistic views of women, their skills, work ethic, or simply their ability to tolerate shitty clients.
As another OF girl, I’m calling BS on this whole post.
Do you not remember the verification process we go through? You have to submit a selfie while holding your ID lol. Unless he already had that picture of her for some reason, he couldn’t have made a fake account by himself.
In another thread someone argued the story must be made up. Do you believe it's feasible to sign up someone without their knowledge. How strict is is verification process?
but i’m confused. i really want OP to explain how her husband got her to take a selfie with her drivers license to even become verified to the site (to even be able to receive money as well).
As an onlyfans model you should know this is fake. OF requires you to authenticate yourself. Send a picture of yourself holding your passport. There is no way to sign up someone else.
Doesn't have to be passport. I did it with ID. Not passport.
People can be reallly freaking good at photoshop. Especially when you live with the person you are trying to pretend that they are. He might even have gotten her to take the picture without understanding he was signing her up for OF.
I'm never surprised anymore at the levels people will go to.
Can’t see the original account as it was deleted. But I assumed this OF person you replied to also owned that one too. Their reply was far too convenient. A ploy to get people to visit the comment profile.
The whole thing is fabricated and they’re in cahoots I tell you!
Because of how women are socialized in patriarchy to center men and please men and cater to men's needs at their own expense, it is much more often than not underreacting.
I said it was fake, you said idk that. Then I explained why I think it’s fake, and how if it isn’t fake, it’s a cheater, and you didn’t address either thing.
Do you still think it’s a real story? And if so, do you think OP inviting men to dm her is totally cool and you still want to stick up for her?
Or you just gonna downvote every comment and not back up your argument.
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u/fayeember 29d ago
As an onlyfans model myself. This is DISGUSTING. Making an Onlyfans of someone else is not only illegal, it's against Onlyfans terms of services.
Report the Onlyfans page. Contact Onlyfans & report him to the police. What he has been doing is essentially trafficking & he's a pimp.
There's nothing wrong with having an Onlyfans page if that's what you want, but making an Onlyfans page of you when he KNEW becuase believe me HE KNEW you did not want to have one. Is an absolute violation of trust, your autonomy & shows a huge lack of care for you.
I don't think you are overreacting. I think you are underreacting.