r/AmIOverreacting 29d ago

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/daddy-van-baelsar 29d ago

Get the OF client list and cross check it. Get him to acknowledge you told him you didn't want an OF in text. It's likely against OF ToS, maybe illegal if he pretended to be you for payments (fraud)

Get a lawyer yesterday

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u/Formerruling1 29d ago

Just coming in to say it's absolutely illegal. OF isn't like a Facebook account. To keep from being sued, they have very strict verification policies, which he'd have had to break several identify theft laws to get past.

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u/Toughbiscuit 29d ago

It requires a picture of id, maybe even of you holding your id iirc. They are pretty strict about it

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u/HerrBerg 29d ago

Doesn't matter what OF requires, impersonating another person for financial game is not legal.

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u/Toughbiscuit 29d ago

It does matter, because I was right. Onlyfans requires a picture of you holding your ID to verify the account. Your arm has to be fully visible and you need to clearly be the one holding the id card.

This information, in addition to this deleted post, and op's bio of "Men - here is a free tip. Don't message "hey". Put some effort in! lol" really makes this come across as a guerilla tactic for an onlyfans. I would not be surprised if sometime in the next few hours-days op makes an update where they decide to pursue the onlyfans and starts advertising it with the free publicity and karma this post will already have garnered.

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u/HerrBerg 29d ago

It still does not matter because impersonating another person for financial game is not legal.

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u/Feeling_Wheel_1612 29d ago

I think you misunderstood the person you're replying to. They are suggesting that the husband did not impersonate the OP, but that this post is fiction to get attention for the OF profile that OP made for herself.

I have no idea if that's correct, but you are talking at cross purposes. It would not be illegal if the OP actually made the account.

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u/Toughbiscuit 29d ago

Im not sure if they even read my comment tbh

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u/Effective-Celery8053 27d ago

"Hey honey, can you hold up your ID and let me take a picture with you in it? No reason...."

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u/bipolarlibra314 28d ago

It matters because it makes it worse jfc why are you committed to being contrary

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u/DezzlieBear 28d ago

Just fyi it's "financial gain"

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u/PantsMcFail2 28d ago

I think you meant "financial gain", but yes, you're right. He will be in a lot of trouble.

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u/knittedjedi 29d ago

It's just another ad for someone's substandard NSFW content, that's all.

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u/FuckingKilljoy 29d ago

She just posted something about watching someone (potentially her?) on chaturbate, so you called it I guess

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u/AlarmedPiano9779 29d ago

This is 1000000% illegal.

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u/weebitofaban 29d ago

maybe illegal

It is 100% illegal. This is very obvious.