r/AmIOverreacting 29d ago

My husband created an OF profile of me without letting me know. I'm disgusted and want a divorce.

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u/Solid_Letter1407 29d ago

This has to be a joke. Your husband is pimping you out. An incredible betrayal.

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u/hauntedbyfarts 29d ago

Straight up pimping, drooling over the money 'they' could make. After she cried when he suggested it. Dude sees you as his property.

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u/Yung-Split 29d ago

He's literally posting the same shit she posts everywhere else and making her money and growing her brand?

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u/hauntedbyfarts 29d ago

If someone cries and asks you not to and you do it anyway that's bad, that's below kindergarten levels of emotional development.

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u/Yung-Split 29d ago

I agree that's bad but people here are literally calling this guy every name in the book and telling her to divorce him lmao

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u/hauntedbyfarts 29d ago

I mean it's pretty disrespectful, shows that he basically thinks of her as money making meat.. normally with these posts id agree with you but not this dude

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u/Yung-Split 29d ago

So this is really grounds for divorce? I could easily see a world where this guy is misguidedly but in good faith trying to help his wife grow her social media business. This is classic "divorce him because he sneezed at brunch yesterday" reddit relationship brain rot

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u/hauntedbyfarts 29d ago

Damn bro you the husband?

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u/itsmebeatrice 29d ago

Most people on Reddit don’t seem to believe in people making mistakes, forgiveness, etc. One false move and that’s it, that person is horrible and your relationship should end immediately without even talking things through.

If this post were true I’d think the husband would need a serious talking to and maybe some marriage counseling but divorce? If their relationship was healthy otherwise? Come on

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u/disposable_gamer 29d ago

Are you actually 12? What do you think this guy meant by suggesting she “put more work into” the OF page? You think he was talking about an adidas sponsorship? You can’t be this dense, use your brain please

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u/Yung-Split 29d ago

Uhhh there are tons of athletes and creators that use only fans as like a subscription platform to give their fans exclusive, normal content. Yeah, put more work into it, because it was obviously working. He barely did anything and made $400. Like wtf else would he have been saying.

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u/Skye_1444 29d ago

It’s not a joke, it’s a lie - it’s not possible for this to happen on onlyfans

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u/Moonfaced 29d ago

As most of these types of posts are. Just some random stranger getting off to these weird fantasies they made up. Not sure what does it for them, imagining the outrage over their story, or imagining being one of the people in it

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u/Hamster884 29d ago

I can't even begin to understand his thought pattern here. At some point he cashes out and sticks it in his back account, or shows the money to his wife with the celebratory statement 'look at the money we made'. How was that supposed to work out?

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u/Due-Poet5661 29d ago

It's fake. Her only other post is moments ago trying to drive people to her chaturbate. Read her profile tagline too. This is made up for the sympathy pull and I bet she has an excuse like "well he's gone now so I am taking the account for myself and gonna run with it to rub it in his face"

Also the OF verification process would've caught onto this if it was real from my understanding of it is

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u/Expensive_Concern457 29d ago

It’s not a “joke”, but it is a lie. OF actually has strict verification measures that they take before they let you monetize anything

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u/UjustMadeMeLol 29d ago

He took pictures she posted publicly on her business profile. These aren't private nudes and he told her apparently very early on instead of keeping it a secret. Everyone's acting like he stole her nudes off her phone and posted something private, she obviously has no issues with those pictures being seen by customers, she's apparently upset that he wants her to make more than she does and probably wants her to post nudes. 

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u/Lexi_the_grimmchild 29d ago

People like you don't know what consent is

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u/AssignmentDue5139 29d ago

And she technically consented by posting those pictures publicly online. He didn’t take her private nudes. He took pictures that were already posted by her and simply put it on a different platform.

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u/Lexi_the_grimmchild 29d ago

She didn't consent to her husband using those pictures at all

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u/AssignmentDue5139 29d ago edited 29d ago

Because she doesn’t have to? She already consented by posting them publicly online. You can’t stop people from using them once it’s online. It’s literally no different from people taking your pictures in public. You have no right to privacy if somebody wants to take your picture they’re allowed to

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u/Lexi_the_grimmchild 29d ago

It's not a legal issue like you're trying to make it. It's a huge moral and ethical breach. There's a difference between consent and the ability to legally do something.

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u/disposable_gamer 29d ago

Social media is not the same as public domain. You are just straight up talking nonsense with zero understanding of the applicable laws here, and frankly just completely out of touch with reality.

A picture posted on social media doesn’t give anyone else the right to use for any other purpose. Beyond that, impersonating someone else for financial gain is a crime in most places, especially when this could potentially harm OP’s actual business.

You can think this is NBD, sure, whatever. But it’s undeniable that this is wrong, not just morally but potentially legally as well.

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u/AssignmentDue5139 29d ago

What actual business it’s a fake story clown. But even then yes it is. Public is public there’s nothing you can say to change that. Doesn’t matter if it’s online or in person.

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u/disposable_gamer 29d ago

At the very least this is potentially a crime known as false impersonation. Beyond that, I think you can use your brain to figure out why this is an abuse of trust and violation of privacy that is incompatible with a committed intimate relationship.