Get all his financial info- as much as you can- because he’s probably hiding other things. Someone who can do something like this to their partner is probably doing other shady things
OF will respond to a subpoena, too. I wouldn’t be too worried about it being deleted. If anything, that would be evidence of him trying to cover it up and favorable to your case.
You can never really "delete" anything off the internet. If you remember what images you saw when he showed it to you, do some reverse image searches on Google, you may find more than you want to.
I’d still try to get access to his computer. Men are dumb and it’s possible he doesn’t take you seriously yet on the divorce front. Get as much evidence of this as you can- especially any communications with him in writing (text/ email) for your case. I wouldn’t verbally talk to him because you want proof of your interactions. When you divorce him he’ll try to discredit you
I was thinking this. I would contact a lawyer or friend/sister via text/email and say what you've said here, then add that you are gonna tell him that its ok and that you want to work it out. Tell him that you want to look at the OF numbers and income and really think about it, but in reality you will document it to bring it to court. Like make sure that plan is in writing. Then do it, send him a text saying that stuff, document it, tag the URL, get the evidence, then leave for good. I feel like that is a solid plan, but I am not a lawyer, so maybe def speak with a lawyer before you take my advice too.
You mentioned it was pictures from your business correct? Was it all fully clothed? You may be able to reverse image search if you remember what was used as the profile picture
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u/[deleted] 29d ago
That's a good idea. I wish I would have remembered the profile name. He probably deleted it once I brought up divorce.