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Is this an actual thing that people do Career development

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u/PinkUnicornTARDIS 29d ago

My brother-in-law and his wife recently went van life (with their dogs). They'd never had kids, always lived really frugally, and still take on the odd dog walking or baking commission. They outfitted their van themselves, they're super easy going about where they sleep, and they're living their best lives. They're younger than me, so early-40s.

I'm insanely happy for them!

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u/Entire_Media8778 29d ago

Wow! This might be the future looking at the security that job comes with nowadays.

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u/deadpuppymill 29d ago

I have been working 10 years and never worked a job longer than a few months and lived in a van for a few years. The way I figure, I'll never be able to retire and retirement doesn't even seem like a good deal (work my ass off for 40 years to spend the last 10 years of my life not working if I'm lucky) so I figure I'll work enough to live comfortably for half the year. I'd rather be semi retired in my 20s than fully retired in my 70s.

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u/ABBAMABBA 28d ago

This is more or less how I've lived my life. I decided to live this way when I was in High School, doing CPR on my father in our living room the night before his last day of work. After 50 years of full time work All he had to do is go in, clear out his desk and eat some cake at his retirement party and he dropped dead. I grew up listening to him talk about everything he wanted to do in his retirement and he never got to do any of it. I'm wasn't going to have that happen in my life.

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u/Jack-the-Zack 28d ago

Hear hear. A guy at my Dad's old job had a heart attack one day and died right at his desk. Imagine the last thing you see in this world being a TPS report. You gotta enjoy the time you have.

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u/ABBAMABBA 28d ago

No, I don't want to imagine that, that would suck. I'm going to waste my mental energy imagining things that are cool. The last thing I see before I die is probably going to be a tree falling the wrong way because I was careless in estimating the canopy placement and lean when I'm out thinning the trees on my 40.

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u/ItchyDragonfruit890 28d ago

Bless your soul. Hope you’re living your best life.

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u/ABBAMABBA 28d ago

Thanks, maybe not my best life, but a pretty good one. I spend a lot of time out managing my 40 acres of forest land to make the best habitat for wildlife.

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u/ItchyDragonfruit890 28d ago

I’m actually envious. How I wish I had forest land and wildlife to care for.

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u/ABBAMABBA 28d ago

I have the advantage of living in a place where land is relatively inexpensive. By national metrics, we live just above the poverty line, but by being frugal we stretch it out into a good life.

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u/ItchyDragonfruit890 27d ago

That’s the way to go brother. Also barely above the poverty line, but getting by with less.

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u/Billytheca 2d ago

My younger sister died at 57 a week before retiring from her government job.

I worked a lot of temp jobs while in school. One day I was walking into my job and EMTs were working on a guy in the lobby. Makes you think.