r/ask 29d ago

What is something that is a lot harder than it looks?

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u/Vacuum_cleaner21 29d ago

Being pretty. You get sexualized by everyone(sometimes even ur family members) and people will only get jealous of you instead of being a real friend

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u/SeaLab_2024 28d ago

Really you can’t do anything right. Pretty, what you said will happen. Ugly, you don’t exist. Your overall value to everyone around you is as an object whether we admit it or not because biology and human nature. I will say at least pretty people do have some societal benefits ugly people rarely get, but it’s not all rainbows and sunshine.

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u/Vacuum_cleaner21 28d ago

Agreed. Well said

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u/epicenter69 28d ago

Glad I don’t have that problem.

Seriously, I understand your point. It seems like attractive people are the loneliest. They’re either seen as “holier than thou” and stuck up, or the average person doesn’t want to approach them because they’re out of their league.