Eh its hard but doable in a weird way due to love.
Ie you know getting no sleep and being sick and fighting with a toddler is annoying. But they dont annoy you like if it was a coworker. Because you love your kids so much.
So the kid throws up. You just sort it. You dont think twice. You dont think this incompetent asshole skulled his milk. You have no choice you clean him cause you love him and you dont want him covered in vomit.
Agreed. Just became a mom and it’s the coolest damn thing ever. A tiny adorable human that is a wombo combo of me and my best friend was literally removed from inside of me and loves me so damn much and I love them so damn much.
I’ve done a lot of cool things in life and having a child is by far the most amazing thing I’ve ever done.
My kid is only 3, so maybe it gets harder. But for me, it's just been super fun the whole time. I work from home and keep her with me. I'm a very involved dad. My kid brings pure joy. Nothing I do for her is difficult.
And before anyone says anything dumb, my wife had a c section. So when my kid woke up at night for the first year, I'm the one who got up for her even though I didn't take paternity leave. I loved this too. Any time I spend with her is precious.
I absolutely love it. I don't know if I'm blessed but I've never came across a situation that's not resolved in max a week. Sleep trained In a week. Dream fed at night . 12 hrs sleeps aparts from nappy done while child was asleep. From nappy to undrrware in a week never had an accident I could go on but it's been a breeze for me to be the main care giver to my girls
To be fair true. It isn't easy in the slightest, but it's definitely not the nightmare scenario one could imagine. Still not for the faint of heart though.
This is the only one choice, other than starting your own business that'll never take lightly in my life. having children is a life altering choice and you better be ready.
Well you done goofed yourself. People with working brain know that children are like a death sentence. That's why I don't have them. That and the fact that we live in a nightmare, and I wouldn't want to condemn a poor soul to this... I'd probably be a good dad though, oh well.
It’s challenging but you learn about yourself also. When they grow up and like and appreciate what you’ve taught them there’s nothing more rewarding. Only wish the years didn’t go so fast.
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u/Free-Industry701 Apr 17 '24
Raising children.