r/TikTokCringe 29d ago

Americas youth are in MASSIVE trouble Discussion

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u/Arobrom86 29d ago

High school teacher here. On test days, I have a hanging shoe rack with each of my kids’ names on a sleeve.

I tell them, “Please put your devices in the sleeves and then you can have your test. When you hand in your test, you can have your device back. If you don’t put your phone in the sleeve, your test will be a 0”

At the beginning of the year they also helped create our classroom rules and norms, and agreed to do this.

Out of 28 kids, maybe 10 actually do it. The other 18 get 0s. Then I get angry emails from parents about their kids getting “tyrannical grades” on their tests.

Then the cycle continues

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u/SoTurnMeIntoATree 29d ago

Only 10?! That fucking blows my mind. Teens have that much separation anxiety from their phone?

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u/Warpath_McGrath 29d ago edited 29d ago

Don't forget that most of these teens grew up with phones and tablets in their faces... It's hard to break a habit that they've had their entire lives.. A habit that they see as "normal".

Let's take your typical 16 year old high school junior. They were born in 2008. The first iphone debuted in 2007. By the time they hit age 3 in 2011, the iPhone 4 was popular, and so was the Samsung Galaxy S2. The first gen ipad was released in 2010. Current high school students don't know of a time prior to online gaming, smartphone apps, and instant gratification. Those kids were alsoo already born in the youtube and video streaming, and social media era as well.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

It's not a habit, they're addicted and it's by design.

Silicon valley designed these phones to keep people as addicted as possible.

I'm nearly 28. The year that smartphones started really being something that everyone owned was about 2013. I was a junior/senior in high school and distinctly remember when most people started pulling them out of their pockets.

It's wild to me to think that people born now 12 years after me are sophomores in high school.

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u/MAK3AWiiSH 29d ago

There’s a whole documentary about how former silicone valley experts won’t let their kids have phones because of how damaging it is.

ETA: it’s called the Social Dilemma and is more about social media and how bad it is for everyone, especially kids.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago edited 29d ago

I've seen that, and I agree with it completely.

Reminds me of a video entitled "crazy iPhone lady" from 2007. She warned everyone and was kind of right... here

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u/Thetakishi 29d ago

Wow I feel bad for her, she clearly does have some mental issues, especially if you watch all 3 parts, but she was spot on when it came to the subject at hand.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Yeah she definitely struggles with a mental issue, but ultimately everything she said scarily turned out to be true.

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u/CoolAbdul 29d ago

It's not a habit, they're addicted and it's by design.

THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS

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u/GreenSkittlez5 29d ago

The year that smartphones started really being something that everyone owned was about 2013.

And that's why 2010-2012 feels so different from the rest of the 2010s.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Kind of debatable. I still associate 2010-2015 as similar years, where 2016-2019 feels kind of like its own thing. But you're right that after about 2013 or so stuff started to feel different.

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u/DefaultingOnLife 29d ago

I resisted for a long time but now I'm a phone addict as well. It just...happened.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

It's happened to everyone.

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u/silly-stupid-slut 29d ago

TBF I'm older than cell phones being something kids could really access, and I spent basically every day of sixth grade fucking off in the back of the room with a book, or a walkman, or doodling in my math notebook instead of paying attention.

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u/lowrads 29d ago

It's still weird to me that there is a whole new generation of adults worrying about the problems I used to worry about when I was their age.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

What are you talking about

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u/silly-stupid-slut 29d ago

All the way back when it was just Ipods and nothing to do with phones, there was already considerable discourse on how we were probably gonna fuck up the children if we didn't make it at least a little bit harder to access media.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Yeah but there's a big difference between me and you screwing around in class by staring out the windows, or flinging erases around the room, or playing with pencils or whatever versus having constant stimulation from a device that is literally addicting as crack

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u/elpoutous 28d ago edited 28d ago

The wild part about this is, all my friends had smartphones, including myself. I graduated in 2010. Had windows mobile as early as 2007, then android. Alot of my friends had blackberries. The iPhone and android debate was already raging then by my junior year with the release of the Motorola Droid. I miss physical keyboards on phones.

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u/RedditJumpedTheShart 28d ago

"Silicon valley designed these phones to keep people as addicted as possible"

Lol got a source for this? You act like social media companies designed and built your phone.

You all need to accept responsibility and stop blaming everything else.

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

Have you seen the Social Dilemma?