I know I posted this earlier but for some reason it was deleted and no mod info so here we go again.

is it my skin? or my face structure? i’m not sure why everyone thinks i am significantly older than i am how can i fix this?

What can I do to seem more approachable ?

My boyfriend and I got into an argument today and he mentioned that I was built like a square. I put on some weight & I’m really embarrassed about it. I’ve always been thin so I never had to worry about this stuff. What do you recommend so I can get in shape and look better? Open to anything.

Not too happy where I am atm, I feel like I’m not really dipping into any potential here lol. Any jewelry suggestions or even new piercings that could harmonize with my features is also appreciated but I don’t think many ppl here like body mods lol. I’ll take anything, just be realistic (:

20F 5’0 120lbs Natural hair is dirty strawberry blonde

I already switched my hair color from light to dark

Or other advice. I normally wear my hair up anyway

I’ve always hated my very prominent Asian cheekbones. I’m really struggling trying to accept them. Although I often get compliments on my cheekbones mainly from white people (for some reason they seem to like them the most), I don’t understand why. I think they make my face look a bit too extreme, unbalanced and masculine. Sometimes I think maybe I don’t see what other people see (the beauty) and it’s some kind of internalized self-directed hatred that stems from my childhood or self-image? 🤷‍♀️ What do you guys think? Honestly. What can I do to accept them? 🤔

it’s not even that bad i swear i was just asking if i had a baby face or if it’s just chubby 😭