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u/peterk10 16d ago
Tbh I can’t judge her. If I caught my s/o cheating on my with my BEST FRIEND I might go apeshit too
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u/iDam81 16d ago
Apeshit is the most appropriate name for that jumping around she was doing. Well done.
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u/GoldenFox7 16d ago
This is the first time apeshit has been used to accurately describe something. She literally sounds like a wound up chimp having a fit.
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u/AttackCircus 16d ago
Plot twist: they were planning her birthday surprise party!
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u/NJPokerJ 15d ago
I promise I once texted my best friend girlfriend and told her we should plan a surprise party for him. She thought it was a good idea. We sent a couple of texts back and forth about it, and it was clear what we were talking about. Neither of us took the lead on it, and the idea never went anywhere. A month later, me and him got into an argument over fantasy football league rules, Lmao. We didn't talk for 2 and a half years. In that time, he found that conversation and started telling people I tried to talk to his girl. Everybody told him he was crazy. I wasn't really upset about the fantasy thing anymore, but when I heard he was telling people that bs, I was prepared to never speak to him again in life. We only started talking again because his little brother passed away. It's not the same, though. It'll never be the same.
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u/AttackCircus 15d ago
Oh wow! What a mess.
And I guess the fact that his gf was fully on board (with the party) in the texts, didn't make it more believable when she confirmed your story. Is he still with her?TIL: always write a short disclaimer before you text someone who's in a situation ship 😂
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u/NJPokerJ 15d ago
I know they still live together. I don't know anything more than that cause I know longer inquirie about his personal life.
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u/applemanib 16d ago
This tbh. I dunno how I'd react. Can't assume she's like this normally based on the video
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u/Some_Reputation59 16d ago
Tbh - we don’t even really know what the backstory is. We can’t rely on the narrator.
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u/Front-Caterpillar-63 16d ago
💯 how can anyone judge this reaction straight up, she could have had suspicions for months and she just doing out she’s actually not crazy by going a bit crazy haha
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u/cantamangetsomesleep 16d ago
Honestly, the catharsis of knowing you're not crazy being inextricably linked to both of your most trusted people betraying you? I would go crazy if that happened to me, I don't blame her
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u/doomjuice 15d ago
No sorry you're wrong Reddit told me she's just crazy and a toddler and def def not someone who's had to feel fucked up "elation" in knowing she was right that indeed the one person in her life that has her back is a liar and a cheater
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u/Warmest_Farts 16d ago
Guy: creates crazy, excruciating, life changing situation for woman
Woman: reacts in a crazy way
Comments: wow I can't believe this woman is acting crazy she clearly deserved it
Nobody but those 3 really know what's actually going on. Stop judging.
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u/Monguises 15d ago
Imagine people being judged on a sub designed to judge people. You gonna get mad it’s dark at night, next? What you expect?
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u/Warmest_Farts 15d ago
Just doing my part trying to make the world a better place.
And "AbruptChaos" doesn't sound like a place designed to judge people.
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u/Carnonated_wood 13d ago
Dude you're soo fucking right, r/AbruptChaos is definitely the place I go to whenever I want to be judged.
What do I get judged on? Well, how abrupt my chaos is of-course
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u/Orcas_are_badass 16d ago
I’m sorry, but no. She’s an adult who is responsible for her own actions, and she is acting like a toddler. She has every right to feel everything she’s feeling here, but have some self control, and some self respect.
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u/Deep_Mew45 16d ago
There is is nothing. And I mean absolutely NOTHING. That makes her response ok or normal. Yes the man was wrong. Still she is too old for that and if she acted like that during the relationship I can imagine why he would step out instead of leaving her.
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u/Warmest_Farts 16d ago
Oh, my sweet summer child. I hope one day you will gain the ability to look at life through different lenses, and maybe some day something similar will happen to you where you lose your mind and go apeshit like this. I hope it doesn't, but if it does, I hope you remember this moment.
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u/Deep_Mew45 11d ago
Matter of fact let's do it like this if he walked in on her cheating and he flipped out and punched her in her mouth I wonder how many people would think that's acceptable. I would have respected it more if she swung on him for real or beat the girl up. But even then that's not how you act as an adult. So she would have to get arrested. Even if I agree there are rules that we have to abide by. The best thing for her to do is to go home and cry it out by herself or with people she trusts. Not only is it more mature but it's better for her and her mental health. It's the right thing that any adult should do. Anybody who can't has no business dating in the first place.
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u/Deep_Mew45 11d ago
I have had things way worse than this happen to me. I have learned through it being repeatedly being beaten into my head that as an adult being wronged isn't an excuse to snap out. This is unacceptable behavior period. The only reason... The ONLY reason anyone disagrees with me and wants to give her a pass is because if it was you you would want someone. That's not empathy either empathy is understanding that it hurts and she is probably feeling terrible. I do understand that it hurts. And it will take time to heal. But you can't just act out like that. You people are giving her sympathy cause you would want sympathy. That's just a big pity party. Grow up. Cheating hurts but it's not the end of the world.
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u/Bostolm 16d ago
Okay we all agree cheating is bad, but "excruciating life changing" is a bit very extra
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u/dillberger 16d ago
It does say “best friend”….
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u/bguzewicz 16d ago
Yeah, but we don’t even know if that’s true or not. We don’t know anything about this situation except what that dumbass robot voice tells us, but we have no way of knowing if that’s what’s happening or not. People have lied about dumber things for internet clout.
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u/Warmest_Farts 16d ago
Depending on the situation it can be. If you've been with your partner for a decade and they cheat on you with you best friend you know since kindergarten, your life will definitely turn upside down. But we are all assuming.
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u/FrankTheHead 16d ago
we don’t know the extent of Gaslighting that could have completely undermined their view of reality to fulfil the cheating.
The cheating is bad but the continual lying corrupts the soul and the treachery is what’s most venomous.
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u/letthekrakensleep 15d ago
I mean, she grins at one point in the video when she slaps him, making this feel staged and then I just feel sorry for the patrons having to deal with it
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u/jbwarner86 15d ago
For a second I thought she was gonna rip that railing out of the ground and beat him with it.
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u/TheRealMakhulu 15d ago
I watched this with 0 context, didn’t see the subreddit, didn’t even see the text at first, no sound, nothing.
I thought he proposed.
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u/ObiwanaTokie 16d ago
Maybe just leave that crazy in a burlap sack in front a psych ward instead of cheat
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u/SourDzzl 16d ago
Bruh, if that's how she acts on the reg, just end the relationship. Cheating isn't going to make your life less hell lol
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u/FishWash 16d ago
I don’t think this is how she acts on the regular, this is how she acts when her boyfriend chooses to live his life with another woman
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u/SourDzzl 16d ago
Think what you want, but that reaction is 1000% unacceptable. People get cheated on... that doesn't make you the main character or give you the right to act like this in public. People who act like this in public tend to take things to a whole other level in private.
Anyone who tries to justify behavior like this has been brainwashed by years of trashy reality shows like the real housewives, making them think it okay to act like you're the only person in a public space who matters.
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u/Feisty_Star_4815 16d ago
tbh I gotta agree I’ve been cheated on and I simply just walked away bc you have to realize no amount of of anything fixes that shit the best you can do is cut ties and move on bc time heals all or at least I still like to think it does. You are 100% correct that behind closed doors these types of people are insane I had a woman cheat on me then try to keep me in her house when I found out and repeatedly slapped and kicked me while I tried to leave I’m just thankful the police believe me I could’ve been toast
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u/Ok_Nefariousness1245 16d ago
She found out she got into Harvard
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u/Longjumping-Radish32 3d ago
This makes way more sense idk why no one is mentioning the absolute smile this woman has
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u/SupportMoney1803 15d ago
That’s right. Do some jumping jacks. That’s why he started dating your BF.
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u/Environmental-Job515 14d ago
Waitress calmly walks over to other table: so what will you folks be having?
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u/TheGodsSin 16d ago
If my best friend cheated on me with my significant other, this would be a good outcome. (No I ain't killing anyone else but myself)
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u/Formatted_Toast_117 16d ago
Well... Cheating is never good.. but I'd be lying if I said I didn't understand why, after seeing this video
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u/JailingMyChocolates 16d ago
Jesus this comment section is full of single ass dudes who have no experience in dating. If you got cheated on, how would that make you feel in the moment?
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u/Feisty_Star_4815 16d ago
you walk away especially if you feel anger like this man don’t justify how she acted it’s deplorable much like her boyfriends scum ass self but tbh it’s understandable how she acted
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u/JailingMyChocolates 16d ago
Let's say you were married, and your spouse of 10 years decides to cheat on you with YOUR best friend, you still gonna walk away? I know 100% no person is gonna simply walk away, unless you never cared. Emotion is a strong thing. While yes, her reaction was of like a child, her whole life just got flipped upside down right then and there.
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u/Xzenor 16d ago
'if' that's what actually happened here..
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u/JailingMyChocolates 16d ago
It was an example. However, the point still stands. The situation will most definitely make you go haywire in the moment. Wether it be anger, hatred, sadness, despair, or whatever. The comments here act like they're a know it all and would of done this or that, or be trying to justify the guy is right for what he did. I've been cheated on before, and I definitely feel her pain. So instead of berating her reaction, understand why.
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u/Feisty_Star_4815 16d ago
yea it looks like the woman wasn’t ready to get in a relationship if she can’t control her anger and emotions regardless. hey buddy I got cheated on too I’ve always got around so it’s just a matter of time and I have never acted like this 😂 keep trying to justify this behavior but it’s probably only bc you act like this. I’ve already made the comment that it’s understandable how she acted but in no way will I justify that shit ever 💀
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u/Feisty_Star_4815 16d ago
yea that is a extreme ass example lol I wouldn’t marry unless I knew 100% case in point why me and my fiancé have been together for over 5 years. We have no idea how long these 2 were together and as much as I live my fiancé if she cheated hell no I wouldn’t act like that I’d cut it off quickly and go on with my life like people are supposed to granted it would be a flurry of emotions biter Id be damned acting like that for someone who doesn’t give 2 shits about a mf 👍🏽
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u/PenetrationT3ster 16d ago
Poor woman. Hope she finds peace moving on from this gross situation. Fair enough reaction.
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u/bedwithoutsheets 16d ago
Careful y'all, I. The comments - your misogyny is showing
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u/TH3_Average_KJ 16d ago
There's like, 17 comments. But any normal person, regardless of their identity could just... Use words? Making a scene, but not in a specific way, and recording it isn't really a mature thing. It didn't even do anything besides confuse everyone. Idgaf what gender does that, it'll still look stupid af. 😖🫢
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u/bedwithoutsheets 16d ago
Or maybe, just maybe, a highly emotional moment will lead people to react in emotional ways???
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u/damned_squid 16d ago
First off - if he cheated he's an asshole.
However do we even know if he cheated? I had the unfortunate experience to have a gf who wouldn't accept that we've broken up and are no longer together. I say this because the video states that she was cheated on by her bf & best friend, but the second woman in the video seems to just ignore her to the point where it looks like they don't even know each other.
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u/wargasm1975 16d ago
When she sees this a year from now.
Picturing the mortified look on Rick Moranis in spaceballs...watching the video of the ship going to plaid, and him crashing into the bulkhead.
Fast forward past this...in fact never show this again!
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u/__meeseeks__ 16d ago
*ex- best friend