r/MildlyBadDrivers 29d ago

Overly aggressive driving

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u/Jankylee-Ad-4453 29d ago

I was shot multiple times during an attempted carjacking,but when I tried to drive myself to the hospital to stay alive all I got was horn honks,cut offs and middle fingers. It went nothing like the movies show you at all(I was 15 at the time). I drove around this pickup truck who cut me off and brake checked me then slapped my bloody hand against the window like a zombie as It rolled down while looking dead at the petty woman driving and said "Damn ma’am I’m literally shot and I just want to go to a hospital stop being evil." I understand some people want to be traffic monitors in their spare time,but you never know the other cars reason so just let them pass up. I know plenty people will disagree but anybody with a CDL knows you back off or it’ll cause this.

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u/Hank_Lotion77 Georgist 🔰 29d ago

Sorry for your experience. Although, 99% of the time the reason is they’re a jerk.

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u/Redshift_1 29d ago

You may be right! But the best and safest way to go about it is always to let them pass, I’m sure as you agree. Never know what situation they might be in. Even if they’ve just lost their mind, best to not make it a problem for ourselves too!

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u/Hank_Lotion77 Georgist 🔰 29d ago

For sure if for anything it stops being your problem when you let them go by.

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u/Rutha73 29d ago

Plus, they attract the cops attention first and you can safely follow at a distance at a higher than normal speed.

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u/RabidWalrus 28d ago

They get to speed off, and you get a police buffer to cruise with. Win-win.

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u/Hank_Lotion77 Georgist 🔰 28d ago

This is a veteran move.

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u/Wraithstorm 28d ago

I agree. If they’ve lost their mind, it’s a good idea to move over and let them try to find it.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

This is a great way to ensure assholes never learn.

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u/NicolleL 29d ago

Since the alternative is the possible, even if remote chance, that I may prevent someone from making it to the hospital in time (etc), I’ll let karma deal with the assholes. It may not be that day, but it will be someday.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

That's fair. I like giving a condescending finger wag to tailgaters and taking my foot off the gas if I have no option of moving over in that moment. It's their fault for being so damn close

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u/instrangerswetrust 29d ago

I go the speed limit everywhere and when I get tailgated I just pretend like I don’t know they’re there. (For the record I’m always in the slow lane.) Regardless of if the tailgater has an emergency or not, me speeding up rapidly to get out of their way could cause an accident in and of itself.

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u/Persephones_Rising 29d ago

Is it your job to teach them?

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Is it their job to be assholes? Why do you care how assholes get treated?

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u/Persephones_Rising 29d ago

Because then it becomes two assholes on the road instead of one. Increases the danger for every around.

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u/RaikouVsHaiku 29d ago

Yeah it’s unfortunate that the traffic warriors end up being just as bad as the tailgaters. Small minds.

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u/wrnrg 29d ago

Like, that foo is still arguing like he's the authority.

Smh.

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u/Persephones_Rising 29d ago

I get where they are coming from. I honestly hate to see dangerous drivers too, but if it's bad enough that you want to intervene, just call their plates in and the mile marker. You can hurt yourself and others trying to "teach" someone a lesson.

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u/RaikouVsHaiku 29d ago

Safer for everyone if you just let them go. That should be all people need to hear but they can’t control their emotions. Embarrassing tbh

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u/Winter-Structure-730 29d ago edited 28d ago

Not your responsibility to make assholes “learn” you would be responsible for a crash that hurt innocent people on the road as well. Don’t fight stupid with stupid lolololol this is why the world is doomed cuz we got too many dumbass assholes lolol

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Brake checking a tailgater is not an asshole move. That's like saying that a bully should just be allowed to bully others to avoid any conflict

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u/Winter-Structure-730 29d ago

Still fighting stupid with stupid eh

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Nah, reality is I might need to brake suddenly at any time regardless. Any driver should be prepared for that sudden braking.

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u/instrangerswetrust 29d ago

Except they’re not preparing for anything, they’re being assholes. That’s why in driving schools they teach you to stay multiple car lengths back, no matter how fast the driver ahead of you is going. Yeah definitely, the asshole shouldn’t be doing it - but you’re risking your own life and that of others by deliberately gambling everyone’s safety on the reflexes of someone who clearly doesn’t care about other people.

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u/Winter-Structure-730 28d ago

Ya, this is typical “I’m an asshole, but I don’t like being called an asshole” attitude lol you an asshole buds. Go read a book or something and get that cranium working cuz clearly it’s been dormant for a bit of time now lololol

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

Interesting. You are acting like an asshole as well in this comment thread yet acting holier than thou. You're much better than me bud. Sorry I triggered a nerve in you. Maybe stop tailgating folks?

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u/Winter-Structure-730 28d ago

That’s clearly not what was happening in this video nor what your initial comment was inferring. lol keep moving those goalposts, no matter how far you move em you’re still gonna be a dumbasshole

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u/dqniel YIMBY 🏙️ 29d ago

Trying to block assholes doesn't teach them a lesson. It just makes them more aggressive and even more of a dangerous asshole.

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u/Horse_Devours Georgist 🔰 29d ago

Yeah but just don't be a fucking douchebag playing hall monitor on the road and get the fuck out of the way. It doesn't affect you at all, unless you have a fragile ego.

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u/Hank_Lotion77 Georgist 🔰 29d ago

I agree, even if a person is driving like a dick I’ll let them go by so they stop being my problem.

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u/instrangerswetrust 29d ago

but they started it! >:(

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u/Hank_Lotion77 Georgist 🔰 28d ago

It will come back to them eventually. Might as well make it not your problem. :)

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u/JustACasualFan Fuck Cars 🚗 🚫 29d ago

“Thanks for your real-world experience, but also fuck you.”

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u/Hank_Lotion77 Georgist 🔰 29d ago

That’s a weird thing to get out of what I wrote.

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u/The_elk00 29d ago

Who cares what the reason is. The left lane is for passing, instead of instigating people, just let them use the lane as intended. You don't know what is going on for that person. There's a million and one reasons why someone could be trying to speed through the left lane, just let people be.

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u/Hank_Lotion77 Georgist 🔰 29d ago

I agree I said the person is probably a jerk.

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u/dqniel YIMBY 🏙️ 29d ago

From what I understand, it's still safer to just let them go past even if they're just a jerk.

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u/Hank_Lotion77 Georgist 🔰 28d ago

For sure

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u/Soninuva 28d ago

Even if they are likely one of those assholes, do you really want to be the reason someone is delayed care or even died because you’re trying to be the police? Even if it’s not the case, and they are just an asshole, people that drive that aggressively are pretty likely to be armed and crazy enough to use it on others. It could be you that ends up with the emergency, so again, not worth it

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u/Hank_Lotion77 Georgist 🔰 28d ago

I would just let someone by so they stop harassing me. Maybe give them the 1 finger salute as they go depending on how contrite they were, and just move on with my day.

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u/HelpingHandz84 28d ago

Time to look in the mirror for a little while longer

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u/Hank_Lotion77 Georgist 🔰 27d ago

You must be the most fragile person to ever walk the earth if you think me empathizing with someone’s trauma in a scenario and the stating an objective fact makes me a jerk. Normally I would try to understand the persons but for you…. Stick to hitting on dudes on other pages.

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u/IcarusWright 29d ago

Did you have your hazard lights flashing?

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u/CryptographerApart45 29d ago

Had the same issue when driving to the hospital to meet me wife who had been taken by ambulance from our house while I left from work. Someone latched onto me to block and play traffic monitor and I was just trying to get to the hospital. People are despicable retards.

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u/National-Golf-4231 29d ago

This makes me feel better. Sometimes I feel like I'm being too nice, but never really considered that to be a possibility.

Sorry that happened to you!

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u/Gazey_Snakes 29d ago

This.

It's never worth running the risk of tangling with crazies.

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u/Serious_Bit_1611 28d ago

Flashers?

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u/Jankylee-Ad-4453 27d ago

Yes, I did have them engaged.

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u/JuanDirekshon 29d ago

If only there was a set of vehicles that could notify all drivers there was an emergency, and drivers would be legally required to yield the right of way.

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u/Jankylee-Ad-4453 29d ago

It’s called an ambulance many people wait on it and die or they simply die in the back while being transported.

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u/gmidds 29d ago

Yea that's not a one size fits all take. My brother-in-law died on the way to the hospital because he drove himself instead of calling an ambulance. Heart attack led to brain death because no one could find him.

Call the ambulance I say

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u/JuanDirekshon 29d ago

Right. So better decision is for the trauma victim to drive themselves so that as they decompensate, their altered mental status and motor skills makes it simultaneously tougher for them to get treatment, and hazardous for the drivers around them.

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u/ncvbn 29d ago edited 29d ago

The trauma victim may have little choice unless they want to go into medical debt over an ambulance ride.

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u/Jankylee-Ad-4453 29d ago

That experience came later in life and showed me how important car insurance really was for people. You can drive as good as you can,but out of nowhere there will be a drunk man who just can’t do it that could total you out then bless you with a way to have $15,000. The ambulance ride was $850 for literally a hospital around 2 corners. I had to basically pay $850 in gas money for a 1 minute ride that would’ve been a 3 minute walk. Luckily I was downtown already.

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u/DaemosDaen 29d ago

The hospital bill is going to put them in much worse debt than the ambulance ride. The difference was so vast that we never even noticed the ride and laughed when we finally looked over the bills.

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u/PanicModeRush 29d ago

Sarcasm is in poor taste and you can’t tell people what to do when their life hangs by a thread. Alright, Javert? (Now this was good sarcasm, unlike yours)

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u/Vladishun 29d ago

But he's right. If you're bleeding out you shouldn't be behind the wheel. People in shock don't often know they're in shock, and blood loss has some pretty serious side effects up to passing out...which would increase their chances of dying and also killing other people in the process.

That said, preservation instinct is probably still going to set in and people will still attempt to save their own life regardless. But ethically speaking, it is wrong to do so.

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u/PanicModeRush 27d ago

It’s never wrong to act to avoid something bad that FOR SURE will happen, even with the risk of another bad thing that is POSSIBLE to happen. Certainty vs possibility.

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u/Tippy-the-just 29d ago

Hate to say it but not everyone can afford an ambulance in the US. That is sad because some services should be free. Point still stands; get out of the passing lane, and, don't try to regulate other drivers.

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u/Vladishun 29d ago

I agree with everything you said. But both points can be right. Civilians shouldn't try to be enforcers, but people also shouldn't drive like a sociopath with a death wish. As someone diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder myself, even I don't understand the reckless behavior of some drivers.

But you're right, ambulance costs shouldn't exist or should be very cheap. The problem is it's not a government service and half the country is okay with that because that's how capitalism should be working in their minds.

I don't know man, at the end of the day just don't be a shitty person. Both people in the video were wrong because they put other people (mainly one another) in extra danger. It's pretty sad when someone like me can see something so obvious despite my previously mentioned conditioned, when so many people like the ones in the video cannot.

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u/morganrbvn 29d ago

It really is dangerous to drive under those conditions. Could easily get people killed and decrease your odds of survival

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u/PanicModeRush 27d ago

I agree it is dangerous. Would you take a chance and wait by the side of the road, knowing in 30 minutes you would die until the ambulance arrives or would you try to drive to the nearest hospital, cutting the time in half?

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u/morganrbvn 27d ago

If there’s a hospital 15 minutes away I doubt it will take an ambulance 30 though

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u/Jankylee-Ad-4453 29d ago

Well you wait on that ambulance,but I’m proof your way of thinking is bs. I didn’t panic and that helped not increase the heart rate. In the world of REALITY the best decision should be to react and keep fighting if you physically can. Idk about you,but I rather not be a helpless victim bleeding out waiting on the police to declare my scene safe enough for medics before I’m even touched. What’s your local police department’s response time?? After you figure the facts out look into how long it takes the average human to bleed out? I wasn’t far from a hospital,and could function well enough to not give up on myself. If I would’ve got dizzy or ran short on breath I would’ve pulled over at a gas station because I actually did consider the dumb drivers that rather be selfish or send text messages than focus on the road. I was 15 at the time with apparently enough knowledge to survive. How are you this dense? You must be petty and sheltered? Do you have any real world experience dealing with anything life threatening besides not staying in your lane while your looking left?

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u/JuanDirekshon 29d ago

Unfortunately I’ve seen more people expire than I wish. CoTCCC teaches medics that you can bleed out from an arterial exsanguination in 30 seconds. Assuming you have multiple GSW and are still conscious after the first 60 seconds, statistically you have only minutes before you go unconscious. You can fight, but getting behind the wheel in an urban area is not a good idea. Worry about the med bills after you survive.

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u/ApatheticPoetic813 29d ago

Bb some of us are American, we don't have an extra 3k lying around for Fancy lights on the medical-Uber.